{"id":7112,"date":"2019-11-16T10:37:50","date_gmt":"2019-11-16T03:37:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=7112"},"modified":"2019-11-19T06:51:44","modified_gmt":"2019-11-18T23:51:44","slug":"thien-chuc-lam-cha-me-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/thien-chuc-lam-cha-me-5\/","title":{"rendered":"THI\u00caN CH\u1ee8C L\u00c0M CHA M\u1eb8 (5)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>NH\u1eeeNG V\u00cc SAO TRONG GIA \u0110\u00ccNH<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n trong c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n v\u00ec \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 n\u00f3. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cung c\u1ea5p cho n\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e9t h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n t\u1eeb c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, n\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 n\u00f3 xem l\u00e0 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng may, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1c em, ch\u00fang th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan tr\u1ecdng cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, d\u1eabu b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a ph\u1ea3i theo. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh sau h\u1eadu tr\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eadt gi\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u00fang t\u00fang b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u00ec r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng cho nhau, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u00e0 c\u00e3i nhau c\u00f4ng khai. Nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta quen v\u1edbi ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb em b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 hai. Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n cho s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n hay y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u01a1n, tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 xoa d\u1ecbu nh\u01b0: \u201cCon c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi con l\u1edbn l\u00ean\u201d th\u1eadt l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Trong hai n\u0103m n\u1eefa n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 anh n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd anh n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa v\u1eabn c\u00f2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u hai n\u0103m. Hai n\u0103m n\u00e0y l\u00e0m n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u0103m th\u00e1ng nh\u01b0 k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc, kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, quy\u1ec1n b\u00ednh. C\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0y ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee9a kia. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 sinh \u0111\u00f4i, sinh ba, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nhau m\u1ea5y ph\u00fat c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 gi\u00e0 h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u00e0n anh ch\u1ecb.<br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 hai r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1ed9t, nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 nh\u00ec nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111e d\u1ecda c\u00e1i v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ed9c quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e1ch chia x\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 n\u00f3. S\u1ef1 sinh \u0111\u1ee9a em lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1ed9t, l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb xu\u1ed1ng ng\u00f4i. Ngay c\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfm m\u00f9i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 \u01b0u th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ee9u tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 m\u1edbi sinh. N\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng r\u1ea5t to l\u1edbn \u1edf l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi n\u0103m th\u00e1ng. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac m\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn sau s\u1ebd b\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u00f4ng cu\u1ed3ng b\u00e0y \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn v\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 tai h\u1ea1i. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. S\u1ef1 ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ecf l\u1ed9 bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn, c\u00e0ng t\u1ecf cho n\u00f3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang bi\u1ebft bao.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1i nan gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn c\u00e0ng xem ra ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n cho nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00e1c \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3, bi\u1ebft \u0111i bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i, bi\u1ebft x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1eb7t cho n\u00f3, bi\u1ebft \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc, bi\u1ebft vi\u1ebft trong l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u1ea1. Kh\u00f4ng bao l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ed9p l\u1ea5y c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y. S\u1ef1 l\u01b0u \u00fd t\u00ecnh c\u1edd c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u1ea5y t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9, c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i: n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t. \u0110\u1ee9a l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn phi\u00ean n\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ra c\u00e1i nguy hi\u1ec3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch xa trong vi\u1ec7c th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn, kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 hy v\u1ecdng n\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng. \u0110\u1ee9a em n\u00f3 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n v\u00e0 k\u00e9m h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u00f3. V\u1eady n\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00e1c n\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 n\u1eb1m \u1edf m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, b\u1ecf l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i cho k\u1ebb c\u1ea1nh tranh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t khi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 r\u1ec5, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t sinh. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00e1c c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t \u01b0u th\u1ebf trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a n\u1ea7y c\u00e0ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00e1c c\u00e0ng \u00edt hy v\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00e8n xanh cho \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ecf cho \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00e1c. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 thay v\u00ec ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 v\u00f2ng \u0111ai khi n\u00f3 c\u00f2n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n b\u1edfi nghi\u00ean v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n. Hai \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb chia th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0m hai \u2013 m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1i th\u00f4ng minh \u2013 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, d\u1ec5 m\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0y th\u00edch h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ee9a kia th\u00edch n\u1ed5i b\u1eadc trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao. \u0110\u1ee9a n\u00e0y gi\u1ecfi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, \u0111\u1ee9a kia s\u1ebd th\u00edch to\u00e1n. \u0110\u1ee9a th\u00ec l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, \u0111\u1ee9a kia c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 d\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 hai, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Chung chung, \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0ng chi\u1ec1u hay b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p, \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n chia \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ai th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n may m\u1eafn, s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n trong nh\u1eefng l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p sau \u0111\u00e2y cho th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb:<\/p>\n<p>Qu\u1ed1c Ti\u1ebfn, 9 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. N\u00f3 m\u1ea5t cha c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y 4 n\u0103m v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m an \u1ee7i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1edbn lao cho m\u1eb9 n\u00f3. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 lo cho \u0111\u1ee9a em Qu\u1ef3nh Hoa m\u1edbi 6 tu\u1ed5i. Tuy \u1edf tu\u1ed5i c\u00f2n th\u01a1 d\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0n th\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi n\u00f3, v\u00e0 th\u1eadt ra n\u00f3 g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00edt b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch th\u00fa c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea5y. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u00edch th\u00fa nh\u01b0 \u1edf nh\u00e0. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng em b\u00e9 Qu\u1ef3nh Hoa c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i con g\u00e1i n\u00e0o? C\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi n\u00f3 n\u1eefa v\u00e0 k\u00eau g\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng tin, \u1ed3n \u00e0o, qu\u1eady ph\u00e1, v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdc t\u1ee9c. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi hai \u0111\u1ee9a qu\u00e1 kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 cho b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a trai v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn chung v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ee9a. Tho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi Qu\u1ef3nh Hoa c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 th\u00edch n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110o\u1ea1n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a cho n\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 y\u00eau n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tin \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdc gi\u1eadn m\u1eb9 n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb gh\u00e9t h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c n\u00f3 s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ra r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng y\u00eau n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn kh\u00e1c x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tham d\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a Qu\u1ed1c ti\u1ebfn. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n em n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng? C\u1eadu b\u00e9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay: \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi n\u00f3 t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n. N\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u00fang t\u00fang v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00f3 n\u00f3i: \u201cD\u1eabu sao, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t\u201d. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a cho n\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u1eefa v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4 g\u00e1i t\u1ed1t. Qu\u1ed1c Ti\u1ebfn c\u00f3 th\u00edch kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cV\u00e2ng, th\u00edch!\u201d nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. T\u00f4i nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tin n\u00f3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eafn. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n em n\u00f3 n\u00ean t\u1ed1t? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i. N\u00f3 ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201cV\u00ec ch\u00e1u mu\u1ed1n n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t khi s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp, \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 ba c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng minh b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t trong hai. R\u1ea5t \u00edt khi \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 ba c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ee9a m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 hai v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3ng minh v\u1edbi nhau, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu hai \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 con trai. \u0110\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn h\u01a1n t\u00f9y theo ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. C\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n chia s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a. Hai ch\u1ecb em xung kh\u1eafc nhau h\u1eb3n trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh, s\u1edf th\u00edch, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a hay c\u1ea1nh tranh nhau l\u00fac c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y m\u1ea1c kh\u1ea3i cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u00f3 tranh ch\u1ea5p, s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a.<\/p>\n<p>T\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 t\u00ednh h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 s\u00e1u \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb th\u00edch v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u, thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u00ean th\u00edch th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ea7u H\u1ed3ng Li\u00ean, con g\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng minh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a g\u00e1i th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 H\u1ed3ng Lan. H\u1ed3ng Li\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1ed1t, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3. H\u1ed3ng Lan tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh trung b\u00ecnh, th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 th\u00edch nh\u1eefng y\u00eau s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t \u00edt n\u0103m sau, hai \u0111\u1ee9a g\u00e1i sinh \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. V\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nhau n\u00ean ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang nh\u1eefng qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Tr\u1ebb sinh \u0111\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u00fang gi\u1ed1ng nhau \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay c\u1ea3 trong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 gi\u1ed1ng nhau l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng trong s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n r\u1ebd gi\u1eefa hai \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sinh \u0111\u00f4i n\u00e0y. H\u1ed3ng Quy\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi ba ph\u00fat l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng minh c\u1ee7a H\u1ed3ng Li\u00ean trong khi H\u1ed3ng V\u00e2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda H\u1ed3ng Lan. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, H\u1ed3ng Quy\u00ean ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ecb H\u1ed3ng Li\u00ean th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a h\u1ecdc sinh gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 d\u1edf trong vi\u1ec7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, trong khi H\u1ed3ng V\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, gi\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 th\u00edch \u0103n di\u1ec7n. C\u1eb7p th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a g\u00e1i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a trai. \u0110\u1ee9a trai l\u00e0 Tuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn trong hai m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 trai n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n \u1edf th\u1ebf th\u01b0\u1ee3ng phong.<\/p>\n<p>C\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u00e2n l\u00e0m hai nh\u00f3m theo \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh, s\u1edf th\u00edch, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m h\u1ea1nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1, H\u1ed3ng Li\u00ean, H\u1ed3ng Quy\u00ean, v\u00e0 cu Tuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, H\u1ed3ng V\u00e2n, H\u1ed3ng Lan, v\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u00fat. Tuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u1ed1, th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c uy th\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb H\u1ed3ng Lan. H\u1ed3ng Quy\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf H\u1ed3ng V\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng cho n\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00e1c. S\u1ef1 tranh ch\u1ea5p, \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed9, b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch kh\u00e1c nhau trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. L\u00ea V\u0103n Qu\u1ea3ng Psy.D.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6965,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[83],"series":[],"class_list":["post-7112","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-doi-song-gia-dinh","tag-lm-phero-le-van-quang"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7112","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7112"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7112\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6965"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7112"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7112"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7112"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=7112"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}