{"id":7049,"date":"2019-11-02T10:41:48","date_gmt":"2019-11-02T03:41:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=7049"},"modified":"2019-11-02T10:41:48","modified_gmt":"2019-11-02T03:41:48","slug":"thien-chuc-lam-cha-me-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/thien-chuc-lam-cha-me-3\/","title":{"rendered":"THI\u00caN CH\u1ee8C L\u00c0M CHA M\u1eb8 (3)"},"content":{"rendered":"

NH\u1eeeNG PH\u01af\u01a0NG C\u00c1CH TH\u00cdCH H\u1ee2P \u0110\u1ec2 \u0110I\u1ec0U KHI\u1ec2N CON C\u00c1I<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/a>Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u00e0i nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc cho vi\u1ec7c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng con tr\u1ebb. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n v\u00ec m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0n th\u1ea3o chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t \u00edt nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng C\u00f9ng Chung S\u1ed1ng c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Trong vi\u1ec7c \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ph\u1ea3i k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Qu\u00ean ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ban cho. Qu\u00ean ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u ti\u00eau h\u1ee7y s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c. C\u1ea3 hai thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1o ch\u00faa v\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i th\u00eam nh\u1eefng x\u00e1c t\u00edn: thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ba nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc: kh\u00f4ng giao chi\u1ebfn, tu\u00e2n gi\u1eef tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i n\u1ea7y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hai c\u00e1i kia. N\u1ebfu giao chi\u1ebfn, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ebfn tranh. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7, b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ea1t n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh. Quan ni\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh l\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u01b0 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 thu\u1ea7n th\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ebf. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c r\u1eb1ng khi h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua cu\u1ed9c. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3: n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n n\u00f3, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 t\u1eebng \u0111i\u1ec3m d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. N\u00f3 gi\u00e0u t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng ch\u1ebf h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m c\u00e1ch giao chi\u1ebfn trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u1ec9 quanh qu\u1ea9n ba ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1n c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 m\u1ea5y. Con tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u1eabu c\u00f3 giao chi\u1ebfn c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn.<\/p>\n

R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 giao chi\u1ebfn th\u00ec v\u00f4 \u00edch. M\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 nh\u1ee5c m\u1ea1, la h\u00e9t, qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch, v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t \u0111\u00edt ch\u1ec9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i \u1edf c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Qu\u1ef3nh Li\u00ean \u0111ang ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u1edf s\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 g\u1ecdi: \u201cLi\u00ean \u01a1i! \u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y!\u201d C\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ecf d\u1ea5u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ea5y. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 g\u1ecdi n\u1eefa, g\u1ecdi n\u1eefa. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n \u0111i ngang qua, nghe ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 nghe ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 g\u1ecdi kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e1p \u201cC\u00f3\u201d nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u01a1i. C\u00f4 b\u1ea1n h\u01a1i gi\u1eadn d\u1eef n\u00f3i: \u201cV\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0?\u201d Qu\u1ef3nh Li\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201c\u01a0, tao c\u00f2n c\u00f3 gi\u1edd. M\u1eb9 tao ch\u01b0a la.\u201d<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. H\u1ecd y\u00eau tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u1ecfi th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au. V\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00ean h\u1ecd lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf qui lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. \u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 l\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y v\u1ec1 sau con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd sai l\u1ea7m bi\u1ebft bao! M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 to\u00e0n n\u0103ng, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd coi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i n\u00e0o t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 xem nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb kh\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c m\u1ea1. B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ban cho kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m. H\u1ecd t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c vui h\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eef g\u00ecn tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 h\u1eefu \u00edch c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Thay v\u00ec ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd, s\u1ef1 ban cho b\u1ecf r\u01a1i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00eam \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. Thay v\u00ec gi\u00fap n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m nguy hi\u1ec3m h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn tranh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 ban cho th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n tr\u00ean \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 do. Cho con tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1 do m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 n\u00e0o l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 do. Trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u0103n h\u00f3a, \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 cao th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i con tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3. Lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tu\u00e2n ph\u1ee5c ngay t\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t b\u1ee1i s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c m\u1ea1. S\u1ef1 c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh trong c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n th\u00ec g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u nguy hi\u1ec3m b\u1ee1i s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do. T\u1ef1 do th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n v\u00ec t\u1ef1 do nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i cho h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd th\u00edch, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng v\u00f4 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. T\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o ch\u00faa. D\u01b0\u1edbi chi\u00eau b\u00e0i ban cho t\u1ef1 do, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m cho con c\u00e1i th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1o ch\u00faa b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb b\u1ee1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u con tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho ch\u00fang \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap n\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. R\u1ea5t s\u1edbm, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t \u00edt v\u00e0 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1eefa \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u01b0\u1eddng chi\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu x\u1ebfp, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u00edch l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 chung nhau. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp bao l\u00e2u m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabm l\u00ean s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd qui lu\u1eadt th\u1ee9 ba v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ngay t\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 c\u00e2y c\u1ea7n n\u01b0\u1edbc. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. Ban cho v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p t\u1ea1o n\u00ean v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m thi\u1ebfu kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 xem ra qu\u00e1 nh\u00fac nh\u00e1t. H\u1ecd th\u1ea5y nguy hi\u1ec3m \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. H\u1ecd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo cho ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd so s\u00e1nh h\u00ecnh v\u00f3c v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd v\u00e0 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i k\u00e9m h\u01a1n h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n. Th\u1eadt ra \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i chung c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tin n\u00f3 c\u00f3. S\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd c\u00e1i kh\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang t\u1eeb th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 n\u1ea7y sang th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 theo m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch. C\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0m t\u0103ng tinh th\u1ea7n can \u0111\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edch. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0m xu\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 x\u1ea5u. M\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch n\u00ean t\u1ed1t, \u01b0\u1edbc ao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, y\u00eau chu\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf. N\u1ebfu m\u1ea5t hy v\u1ecdng, m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai l\u1ea7m. K\u1ef7 thu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch th\u00ec ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. R\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o. Tr\u1ebb con gh\u00e9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ca ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ai. S\u1ef1 ca t\u1ee5ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1. Ngay c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 m\u1ea5t can \u0111\u1ea3m, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u n\u00f3 th\u00edch, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00f5a \u0111\u00e1p s\u1ef1 qu\u00ed m\u1ebfn cao c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Hai y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y xem ra l\u00e0 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu cho s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7: ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ca t\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xoa d\u1ecbu. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. T\u1ef1 tin, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 can \u0111\u1ea3m. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 th\u00edch nghi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai m\u00e0 n\u00f3 g\u1eb7p, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang kh\u00e1t mong lo\u1ea1i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 n\u1ea7y.
\nS\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 n\u01a1i s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1. Khi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i nhau, m\u1ed7i b\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00ec r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t tinh vi m\u00e0 qua \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u00f3p ch\u1ebft nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0m th\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng th\u00ec s\u1ed1t s\u1eafng mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng trong s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00edch l\u1ee3i th\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 mau m\u1eafn \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed9, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t an, c\u1ee7a chia l\u00eca v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m. H\u1ecd \u00edt ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n n\u00f3. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 t\u00ednh. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng. H\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. L\u00ea V\u0103n Qu\u1ea3ng Psy.D.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u00e0i nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc cho vi\u1ec7c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng con tr\u1ebb. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n v\u00ec m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":4481,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[83],"series":[],"class_list":["post-7049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-doi-song-gia-dinh","tag-lm-phero-le-van-quang"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7049"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7049\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4481"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7049"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=7049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}