{"id":7002,"date":"2019-10-26T11:53:09","date_gmt":"2019-10-26T04:53:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=7002"},"modified":"2019-10-26T11:57:53","modified_gmt":"2019-10-26T04:57:53","slug":"7002-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/7002-2\/","title":{"rendered":"THI\u00caN CH\u1ee8C L\u00c0M CHA M\u1eb8 (2)"},"content":{"rendered":"

NH\u1eeeNG SAI L\u1ea6M CHUNG TRONG VI\u1ec6C NU\u00d4I TR\u1eba\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Cung c\u1ea5p v\u00e0 c\u01b0ng chi\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 xung kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 chi\u1ebfn tranh. B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch c\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng khai hay \u1ea9n k\u00edn. R\u1ea5t \u00edt b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn tr\u1eadn kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i \u0111i v\u00e0o. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1eadn th\u00f9. Th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eadn b\u00e0 trong khi b\u00e0 v\u1eefng tin r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 cho n\u00f3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 y\u00eau n\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau b\u00e0 suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n khi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2i b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 ra \u0111i. C\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau bi k\u1ecbch \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, l\u00fac m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u1edbn l\u00ean n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m lo l\u1eafng.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong vi\u1ec7c che ch\u1edf v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf c\u00e1i quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111ang b\u1ecb \u0111e d\u1ecda b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t khi s\u1ef1 h\u1eadn th\u00f9 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1eefa. Trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb lung lay b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u00f9 h\u1eadn l\u1eabn nhau, nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n cho s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o l\u1eabn nhau. M\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t cho m\u1ed7i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u00edch nghi v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 xem ra c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 thanh minh cho nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 h\u1eadn th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. S\u1ef1 h\u1eadn th\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm nh\u01b0 l\u00fac v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 may m\u1eafn, s\u1ef1 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf con tr\u1ebb x\u1ea3y ra ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba m\u1ea7m non kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mu\u1ed1n. Trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o, s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, chi\u1ebfn tranh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1 g\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o trong \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau s\u1ef1 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n? H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c? \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft th\u00ec qu\u00e1 \u00edt nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec sai v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u nguy h\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee3 \u0111\u00f3ng gi\u00e0y n\u00e0o d\u00e1m m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m m\u1edf ti\u1ec7m gi\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u1edf m\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb n\u00e0o, ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi thay, h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd m\u00e0 qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng ta qu\u00ean s\u1ef1 nh\u1ee5c m\u1ea1 \u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n d\u01b0\u1edbi tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n c\u1ee7a b\u00e0n tay b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 r\u1eb1ng k\u1ef7 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 sai, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i n\u1eefa. M\u1ed7i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 trong th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9 cho m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi n\u1ecd sang \u0111\u1eddi kia. Th\u1eeba s\u1ea3n tinh th\u1ea7n th\u00ec m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1eeba s\u1ea3n v\u1eadt l\u00fd n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c n\u00e9t qu\u1ed1c gia hay ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c \u00edt c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t sinh h\u1ecdc h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u0103n c\u1ee9 tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y xem ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb? Ch\u00ednh th\u1eddi gian \u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9c v\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp n\u00e0y l\u00e0m m\u00e9o m\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, trong ph\u1ea3n ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, g\u00e2y n\u00ean nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eadp n\u1eefa v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tinh th\u1ea7n. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u0103n \u0111\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0103n \u0111\u00f2n. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vun tr\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9c trong \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1 r\u1ea5t cao c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng. Nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, b\u00e0 con, v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u00f3i quen ph\u00e1t \u0111\u00edt trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n con tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1edfi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ph\u00e1t \u0111\u00edt c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c m\u1ea1 v\u00e0 vi ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng d\u00f9ng k\u1ef7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 cho \u01b0u th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n minh cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed7 l\u1ed7i cho nh\u1eefng x\u00fac c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Th\u00f3i quen ph\u00e1t \u0111\u00edt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7, b\u00ecnh an, v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng ghi nh\u1edb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u00e1i quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung. Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn chung c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tri\u1ebft l\u00fd nh\u00e2n sinh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft, l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, hay sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do ph\u1ecfng theo d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 khi gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, n\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c h\u1ecda c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00f3i chung, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ee9c tranh m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ebd v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ea7u kh\u00ed \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eafn n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ph\u1ea3i c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a sao cho n\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00f3 th\u00e2u l\u01b0\u1ee3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng may, nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00ean ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00edch k\u1ef7. Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 \u00edt c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho nh\u00f3m, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ebf th\u00edch h\u1ee3p b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi: \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e0, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt ra l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, c\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0n th\u1ea3o tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c, c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00edch nghi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00fd th\u1ee9c trong c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft b\u00e9n nh\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra chung quanh n\u00f3 v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh chung quanh n\u00f3. R\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 lu\u1eadt cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c cho con c\u00e1i. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i l\u00e1o. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n h\u1ecd n\u00f3i l\u00e1o v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng ho\u1eb7c ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i l\u00e1o thay cho h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd mong con m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0m. H\u1ecd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean b\u1edfi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p t\u1eeb con h\u1ecd v\u00e0 tra h\u1ecfi n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u trong khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 nghe t\u1eeb h\u1ecd. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u00f4ng cu\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u1ebfu m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi con, con kh\u00f4ng thu d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng con\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1eed t\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sao? Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u1ea3ng h\u1ed1t b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u00e2n l\u00e0m s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n trao ban cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u00e2n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ban cho ai kh\u00e1c. Ban cho th\u00ec c\u0169ng tai h\u1ecda nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con c\u00e1i, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 sai. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n k\u1ef7 thu\u1eadt gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cho s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho s\u1ef1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Nh\u1eefng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u \u00fd, th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u01b0u \u0111\u00e3i cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. M\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t an s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m ch\u00fang ta ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt tr\u1eeb.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u01a1n h\u1ecd c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tranh \u0111ua b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. V\u00e0 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ng\u00f4ng cu\u1ed3ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u01a1n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. V\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y l\u1ed1i \u0111i m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y l\u1ed1i \u0111i. Con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111e d\u1ecda danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea1nh tranh ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111au l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. H\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, s\u1ef1 ban cho c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. M\u1ecdi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t tu\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ednh x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ea7n th\u00e1nh v\u1ec1 thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m ph\u1ee5 m\u1eabu. H\u1ecd c\u00e0ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t \u00fd mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh l\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng \u00edt th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n. Th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 cay \u0111\u1eafng b\u1edfi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, h\u1ecd mang s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 qua con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. L\u00ea V\u0103n Qu\u1ea3ng Psy.D.<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cung c\u1ea5p v\u00e0 c\u01b0ng chi\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 xung kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 chi\u1ebfn tranh. B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch c\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng khai hay \u1ea9n k\u00edn. R\u1ea5t \u00edt b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn tr\u1eadn kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i \u0111i v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":7003,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-7002","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-doi-song-gia-dinh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7002","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7002"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7002\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7002"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7002"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7002"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=7002"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}