{"id":6964,"date":"2019-10-19T09:26:49","date_gmt":"2019-10-19T02:26:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=6964"},"modified":"2019-10-19T09:26:49","modified_gmt":"2019-10-19T02:26:49","slug":"thien-chuc-lam-cha-me-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/thien-chuc-lam-cha-me-1\/","title":{"rendered":"THI\u00caN CH\u1ee8C L\u00c0M CHA M\u1eb8 (1)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cCON H\u01af T\u1ea0I M\u1eb8, CH\u00c1U H\u01af T\u1ea0I B\u00c0\u201d.<\/b><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef b\u00ecnh d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ee7 cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. V\u1edbi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a Kh\u1ed5ng M\u1ea1nh, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u1ecdng tr\u00e1ch lo cho n\u1ec1n kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea3m tr\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u0103m lo gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u1ef7 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f3a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u00e0n th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

CH\u1ee8C N\u0102NG C\u1ee6A NG\u01af\u1edcI CHA<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t \u01b0 quan tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng l\u00e0 m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00ean c\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. V\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 gia ch\u1ee7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban t\u1eb7ng cho nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, uy quy\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 d\u0169ng l\u1ef1c. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf d\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u00c2u M\u1ef9 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi h\u00f4m nay. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u00e0y l\u00e0: ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam c\u00f3 v\u00f3c d\u00e1ng to h\u01a1n, kh\u1ecfe h\u01a1n, d\u0169ng l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng cao to v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfe h\u01a1n h\u1ecd. C\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ebfm ra ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i cho h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng. Trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf s\u1edf ho\u1eb7c th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i \u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Th\u1eddi gi\u1edd gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha d\u00f9ng cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Con c\u00e1i mong ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u1edd ph\u00fat \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quay qu\u1ea7n b\u00ean b\u1ed1. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1, l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1, nh\u1eefng g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh bao l\u00e2u ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

D\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00ec r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. H\u1ecd coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. S\u1ef1 r\u00fat lui n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do t\u00e2m l\u00fd: tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng k\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. D\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng con tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nghi ng\u1edd kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9. S\u1ef1 r\u00fat lui c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0 l\u00e0m s\u1ef1 sai l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c n\u00e0o l\u00ean tr\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. L\u00fd do th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb cho r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n d\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gi\u1edd cho con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m lo cho ch\u00fang. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n l\u00e0 minh \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 xa c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u \u00f4ng b\u1ed1. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

CH\u1ee8C N\u0102NG C\u1ee6A NG\u01af\u1edcI M\u1eb8<\/b><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean nh\u01b0 c\u0169 d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c nhau. N\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con b\u1ecb tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c, c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi sinh. B\u00e0 nu\u00f4i n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, th\u00f5a m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e0.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1eb1ng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y, cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng m\u1eabu t\u1eed, khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u00e0 g\u00e1nh l\u1ea5y vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu b\u00e0 bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi vai tr\u00f2 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. M\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1eb9 bao l\u00e2u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00e0y. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gi\u1edd gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, b\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y. Th\u1eadt ra, th\u1eddi gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta d\u00f9ng n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 can thi\u1ec7p \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con b\u00e0, n\u1ebfu b\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda b\u00ean n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trung th\u00e0nh. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u1ebfu b\u00e0 t\u1ecf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau m\u1ebfn n\u00f3 trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh cho d\u1ea7u trong l\u00fac th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

NH\u1eeeNG \u0110I\u1ec0U KH\u00d4NG TH\u00cdCH H\u1ee2P C\u1ee6A NH\u1eeeNG B\u00c0 M\u1eb8<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ca t\u1ee5ng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c thi s\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt xem ra ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 h\u00f4m nay. Trong nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3, ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u00edch nghi c\u1ee7a bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9a con tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 d\u01b0\u1edbi n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i xem ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t. T\u00ecnh m\u1eb9, xa v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fac ph\u00fac, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ebd v\u1eddi t\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec3m trong th\u01a1 v\u0103n c\u1ed5, l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u0169 kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 d\u1eef. D\u01b0\u1edbi danh ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9i l\u1ed1p t\u00ecnh m\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ca t\u1ee5ng cho c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c ra ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, v\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb kh\u1eafc khe c\u1ee7a b\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng th\u1eadt l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00e1o bu\u1ed9c c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u00e0 th\u1eadt ra c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u cho quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb xem l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m. H\u1ecd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. H\u1ecd chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng v\u1eefng trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ch\u01b0a ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t n\u1ebfu \u0111em so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u00f4ng. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 trong nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eadt ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a tr\u01b0\u1edbc cho ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kh\u1eafc khe gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi th\u1ea5p h\u00e8n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u01b0u th\u1ebf h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u00edt r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nguy hi\u1ec3m m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c c\u00e1c \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. V\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00edt th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y?<\/p>\n

Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con, s\u1ef1 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh d\u1ec5 th\u1ea5y. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay \u00edt chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u00f2a. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u00edch \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf d\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, th\u1eadt ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u00e0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i cung c\u1ea5p \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u00e0 l\u1ea1i mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0o c\u00e1c con. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n con h\u1ecd thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ed1ng v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau sao? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 cho s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. B\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng cho \u0111\u1ee9a con, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i thay th\u1ebf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra ph\u1ea3i th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1p. Giao t\u1ebf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a ngang qua lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau b\u00e0 nh\u00ecn con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gia t\u0103ng ni\u1ec1m vinh d\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng chu\u00f4ng vang trong n\u1ea5c thang ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u00f9ng con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho s\u1ef1 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. N\u00f3 b\u1ecb g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi nguy hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00fd do t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, b\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh c\u01b0ng chi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111i v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u00e0. Trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t t\u00edn c\u1ee7a b\u00e0, b\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edn nhi\u1ec7m. Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n g\u00ec s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u0169ng x\u1ea3y ra. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 khi \u0111\u1ee9a con th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u00e0 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y b\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd th\u1ea3m k\u1ecbch \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f9ng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i. May m\u1eafn, h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0ng chi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang th\u00edch nghi v\u00e0o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 can \u0111\u1ea3m, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft s\u1ef1 xung kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi b\u00e0 m\u1eb9. B\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef n\u00f3 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1eddi b\u00e0, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 cho th\u1ea5y trong nh\u1eefng h\u1eadn th\u00f9 c\u00f4ng khai.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. L\u00ea V\u0103n Qu\u1ea3ng Psy.D. <\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

V\u1edbi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a Kh\u1ed5ng M\u1ea1nh, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u1ecdng tr\u00e1ch lo cho n\u1ec1n kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea3m tr\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u0103m lo gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u1ef7 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f3a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u00e0n th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6966,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[83],"series":[],"class_list":["post-6964","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-doi-song-gia-dinh","tag-lm-phero-le-van-quang"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6964","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6964"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6964\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6966"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6964"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=6964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}