{"id":6854,"date":"2019-09-28T07:53:22","date_gmt":"2019-09-28T00:53:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=6854"},"modified":"2019-09-28T07:53:22","modified_gmt":"2019-09-28T00:53:22","slug":"nhung-van-de-cua-hon-nhan-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/nhung-van-de-cua-hon-nhan-5\/","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG V\u1ea4N \u0110\u1ec0 C\u1ee6A H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N (5)"},"content":{"rendered":"

V\u1eca TR\u00cd CHI\u1ebeN THU\u1eacT C\u1ee6A NG\u01af\u1edcI V\u1ee2<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>S\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu th\u01b0\u1eddng do \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0u th\u1ebf tr\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh n\u1eb1m \u0111\u00e0ng sau nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nan gi\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi say r\u01b0\u1ee3u, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng, th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p nhi\u1ec1u cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Th\u01b0\u1eddng thi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, th\u00edch ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu c\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ef1c v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 chao \u0111\u1ea3o. Trong khi n\u00e0ng h\u1ea3nh di\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 \u00fd h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e8o l\u00e1i v\u00e0 c\u1ee9u ch\u00e0ng kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng kh\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng, n\u00e0ng th\u1eadt ra ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng. Lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n n\u00ean t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea1t n\u00e0ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t an \u1ee7i nho nh\u1ecf. Ch\u00e0ng \u00edt khi nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0y \u0111\u1ecda n\u00e0ng, ch\u00e0ng ch\u1ec9 th\u00eam cho n\u00e0ng s\u1ef1 vinh d\u1ef1. B\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng say r\u01b0\u1ee3u th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eed \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u00fang ti\u00ean chu\u1ea9n. N\u00e0ng c\u00e0ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5, c\u00e0ng th\u00eam th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng kh\u1ecfi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp. M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00e0ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0ng ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t n\u00e0ng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t l\u00fac m\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n lo l\u1eafng cho n\u00e0ng. Nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u1ea3, m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed9c \u0111e d\u1ecda, n\u00e0ng nh\u01b0\u1eddng b\u01b0\u1edbc, tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a m\u00e0 n\u00e0ng th\u1eeba bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi say r\u01b0\u1ee3u tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3. S\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u cho s\u1ef1 t\u1eed \u0111\u1ea1o. S\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

M\u1edbi nghe, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c n\u00e0y cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u do c\u1ea3 hai, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t b\u00ean. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed7 v\u1ee1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. S\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u00e0 c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n. S\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00ean t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng. Tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7, \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n cho vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Th\u00edch th\u00fa t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong vi\u1ec7c v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1ecf ra ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi b\u1ecb th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e0ng sau ngai v\u00e0ng. V\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c b\u00e0 d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp d\u00e0nh cho ph\u00e1i nam. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u00e0ng m\u00e8o d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, bi\u1ebft uy\u1ec3n chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa trong khi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 tr\u1ed5i nh\u1ea1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 m\u1ea1c kh\u1ea3i cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong khi c\u00e1c \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. Th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec c\u0103n b\u1ea3n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 y\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

K\u00cdCH TH\u00cdCH NH\u1eeeNG S\u1ede TH\u00cdCH M\u1edaI<\/b><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 k\u1ef7 thu\u1eadt \u2013 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o – m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn, l\u00f2ng qu\u00ed m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00f5a m\u00e3n v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ee3p h\u1ed7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng. S\u1ef1 say m\u00ea th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap nh\u1eadn ra, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng tham gia nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i sinh ho\u1ea1t ti\u1ec7c tr\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. S\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do th\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu ch\u00e0ng th\u00edch giao t\u1ebf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nhi\u1ec1u, ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 ch\u01a1i b\u00e0i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c ngay. Nh\u01b0ng ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 ra, ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu n\u1eb1m \u0111\u1eb1ng sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n cho s\u1ef1 tham gia sinh ho\u1ea1t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e0ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 phung ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t sinh ho\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 xem nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb trong \u0111\u1eddi. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 t\u00e1 qu\u00ed m\u1ebfn ch\u00e0ng, n\u00ean ch\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t h\u00fat gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c nhau. Kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai s\u1ebd ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tranh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o v\u1ec1 giao t\u1ebf, v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 bi\u1ebft t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c giao t\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00e0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 khu\u00e2y kho\u1ea3 hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u00e0ng n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00e0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng v\u00e0 mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00e0ng ch\u01b0a kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra s\u1ef1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u0103n nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p hay c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra c\u00e1i th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn khi ch\u00e0ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng s\u1edf d\u0129 ch\u00e0ng ch\u01b0a th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u00edch th\u00fa l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00e0ng ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m quen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a quen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n ngon m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 nghe nh\u1ea1c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng nh\u1ea1c hay. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c nh\u1ea1c hay m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u00edch, lo\u1ea1i th\u1ee9c \u0103n m\u00e0 b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 n\u1ea5u, nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 n\u00e0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 mu\u1ed1n r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0ng n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00ec s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0m gia t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu n\u00e0ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e0ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch hay, n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ch\u00e0ng cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac cho c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, s\u1ef1 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng. Tho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1edbi th\u00ec v\u00f4 v\u1ecb, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng v\u00e0 l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n. N\u00f3i chung, v\u1ecb gi\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp \u0111i l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n hay b\u1edfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n. Trong l\u00fac gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u1edbi cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u00fd t\u1ee9, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ed3ng \u0111i th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c h\u00f2a nh\u1ea1c khi ch\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea1c c\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t. N\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn ch\u1ecdn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i xem m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i m\u00e0n ph\u1ee5 xen k\u1ebd v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean kh\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e0ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch th\u00fa \u0111i k\u00e8m b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e0ng th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i m\u00e0 n\u00e0ng th\u00edch th\u00fa. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 b\u1edfi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd coi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m. H\u1ecd t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng khi th\u1ea5y ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0103n h\u00f3a cao h\u01a1n. Thay v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eafng v\u01b0\u1ee3t, h\u1ecd t\u1ecf ra gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 do d\u1ef1 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng. L\u1ebd ra m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi nhau l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 giao tranh, m\u1ed9t b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00edch cho ph\u00eda b\u00ean n\u00e0y v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t cho ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00f4i k\u00e9o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch th\u00fa h\u01a1n trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, v\u0103n h\u00f3a. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, trong h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ch\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh chia x\u1ebb s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1edbi m\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00e0ng. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 \u00edt c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00e0 sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng n\u1ebfu so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, n\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111e d\u1ecda \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng trong vi\u1ec7c tu\u00e2n theo s\u1ef1 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c xem ra thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 thao, th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c. Ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p n\u00e0ng tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0 chia x\u1ebb s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c, \u0111\u1eafp t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, thu th\u1eadp tem\u2026ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch tham d\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng sinh ho\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u01a1i n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chia x\u1ebb. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch th\u00fa l\u1eabn nhau. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch trong c\u00f9ng l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c chung c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. M\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch gi\u1ed1ng nhau trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung. Nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia x\u1ebb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, s\u1ef1 xoay chuy\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1, nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng vui c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bu\u1ed3n, nh\u1eefng lo \u00e2u c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng trong tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ngay c\u1ea3 xem ra gi\u1ed1ng nhau n\u1eefa. L\u00e0m c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n. N\u00f3 r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i th\u00f3i quen th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn gi\u1ed1ng nhau. S\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch gi\u1ed1ng nhau l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xen v\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o cho th\u1eddi gian nh\u00e0n r\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m th\u00edch th\u00fa cho c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 tai h\u1ea1i tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 Nguy\u1ec5n thi huy\u1ec1n Linh. C\u00f4 H. Linh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu ph\u1ee5 tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do. C\u00f4 l\u1ea5y \u00f4ng anh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4. Trong l\u00fac c\u00f4 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f4 r\u1ea5t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau trong nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch, c\u00f4 mong ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f4 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Sau th\u1eddi gian t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh, ch\u00e0ng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd chia x\u1ebb nh\u1eefng sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. H\u1ecd l\u1ea5y nhau trong khi ch\u00e0ng c\u00f2n \u1edf trong qu\u00e2n ng\u0169, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00e0ng \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u1edf h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i. Khi ch\u00e0ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. N\u00e0ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra ch\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1ea1c c\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n, ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch \u00e1nh \u0111\u00e8n c\u1ee7a s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u t\u00e2n nh\u1ea1c. V\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb th\u00ec ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u1eeba v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au. N\u00e0ng c\u00e0ng ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ch\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111i tham d\u1ef1 h\u00f2a nh\u1ea1c, ch\u00e0ng c\u00e0ng gi\u1eef v\u1eefng l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u1eefng tranh c\u00e3i v\u00e0 va ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. N\u00e0ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa trong vi\u1ec7c li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, ch\u00e0ng c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi. N\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3. V\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y, n\u00e0ng \u0111i b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 xin gi\u00fap \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 n\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u mu\u1ed1n tham kh\u1ea3o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ly d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

Sau khi l\u1eafng nghe t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng than phi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean. Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed9i ng\u1ed9 ba chi\u1ec1u. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng r\u1ea5t y\u00eau n\u00e0ng. Ch\u00e0ng r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi, v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao n\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00e0ng t\u1ecf ra l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng n\u00e0ng v\u1eabn gi\u1eef v\u1eefng l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u00e0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m. Ch\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho n\u00e0ng sinh ra h\u1eadn th\u00f9, v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao d\u1eabu ch\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng, ch\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 n\u00e0ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang trong nh\u1eefng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. Tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t l\u00fd lu\u1eadn, ch\u00e0ng qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 sai. Nh\u01b0ng x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, n\u00e0ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng xung kh\u1eafc. S\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, \u00e1p l\u1ef1a, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nguy h\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Trong khi n\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng, l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng v\u00ec ch\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng. T\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ch\u00ednh n\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

Sau m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u1eb3n. N\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 khi\u00eau kh\u00edch n\u1eefa. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 th\u1ea5y ngay trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi. H\u1ecd xem ra th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. N\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i su\u1ed1t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111i d\u1ef1 bu\u1ed5i h\u00f2a nh\u1ea1c. Trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o ch\u00e0ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang, bi\u1ebft qu\u00ed tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1eeb ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, thay v\u00ec khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch ch\u00e0ng v\u00ec quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng. N\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng trong khi n\u00e0ng t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o ch\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 thi\u1ebfu d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7. V\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u1ecdng k\u00ednh v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda n\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 kh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u00ec s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 m\u1ea1 l\u1ef5 c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh khi\u1ebfn ch\u00e0ng gi\u1eef th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ra r\u1eb1ng l\u00fd lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00fang th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng n\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e0ng n\u1eefa v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quan t\u00e2m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. L\u00ea V\u0103n Qu\u1ea3ng Psy.D. <\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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