{"id":6670,"date":"2019-09-14T11:54:35","date_gmt":"2019-09-14T04:54:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=6670"},"modified":"2019-09-14T12:08:46","modified_gmt":"2019-09-14T05:08:46","slug":"nhung-van-de-cua-hon-nhan-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/nhung-van-de-cua-hon-nhan-3\/","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG V\u1ea4N \u0110\u1ec0 C\u1ee6A H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N (3)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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TR\u00c1I TIM SON
\u1ea2nh c\u1ee7a Lm. V\u0169 \u0110\u00ecnh Huy\u1ebfn, CMC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU C\u1ea6N S\u1ef0 D\u00c0I L\u00c2U<\/b><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t khi \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u00edch th\u00edch t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 thay v\u00ec quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao l\u00e2u sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n qu\u00ean \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quy\u1ebfn r\u1ee7 v\u00e0 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng gi\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i cho ph\u00e9p h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5. V\u00e0 khi nh\u1eefng mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat h\u01a1n. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n khi h\u1ecd \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c \u0111i th\u0103m b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i qu\u00ean ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao ban thay v\u00ec chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u1edbi m\u1ebb c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n r\u1ed3i, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n lo l\u1eafng: h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00f2n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00eau g\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f3m g\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e0ng. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c m\u1ea1. Kh\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau qu\u00ed nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed trong c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3. Sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t sau nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt, h\u1ecd qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi. \u00cdt ra trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, h\u1ecd n\u00ean t\u1ecf cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y g\u00ec bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp \u0111i l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i. Sau \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi, c\u00e1c \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng t\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3m trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. Xem ra c\u00e1c \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd xem c\u00e1c b\u00e0 nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 th\u00f5a m\u00e3n trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecnh \u00e1i nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u00f4ng m\u1edbi l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed7i khi h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n. H\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u00e0 n\u00ean lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00ean \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u01b0u th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i nam c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u1ed5 v\u0169 cho quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh \u00e1i l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a n\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh \u00e1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 chung v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean c\u00f9ng nhau c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng cho b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn chung \u0111\u00f3. <\/p>\n

M\u1eccI TR\u1ee4C TR\u1eb6C L\u00c0 B\u1ed4N PH\u1eacN CHUNG<\/b><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u1ebfu nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c n\u00e0o trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn chung c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. T\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nan gi\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0m nguy hi\u1ec3m s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m h\u1ecd g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t nhau h\u01a1n. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00e0o nhau khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. C\u00f3 c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb chung s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam s\u1ee9c kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch n\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m tri\u1ebft l\u00fd v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n sinh v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia x\u1ebb b\u1edfi c\u1ea3 hai, mang l\u1ea1i cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin xung kh\u1eafc l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i, s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea2 B\u00caN V\u1ee2 L\u1eaaN B\u00caN CH\u1ed2NG \u0110\u1ec0U L\u00c0 B\u1ed4N PH\u1eacN CHUNG<\/b><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111e d\u1ecda nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t b\u00ean ch\u1ed3ng, b\u00ean v\u1ee3. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nan gi\u1ea3i n\u00e0o ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 th\u00ec r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd cho nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t x\u1ea3y ra. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c h\u01a1n. Trong l\u00fac b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 r\u1ea5t h\u00e2n hoan ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3 v\u00e0o trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng xem c\u00f4 g\u00e1i n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd qu\u00ed tr\u1ecdng. Di nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u lu\u1eadt tr\u1eeb cho \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 ch\u00fat l\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec3m thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean c\u00f9ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem m\u1ecdi tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn chung. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u00e0 phe ph\u00e1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t khi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp, s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft th\u00f5a \u0111\u00e1ng b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 sai, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n. C\u00f4 n\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 gi\u1eb1ng co gi\u1eefa b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3. Nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 xung kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u1ed3ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng gi\u1eadn b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u cho m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft x\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u00f3c t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o x\u00f3a h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong l\u00fac n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi xung \u0111\u1ed9t b\u00ean ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u00ean v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem ra kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng bao l\u00e2u n\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi n\u00e0ng ra kh\u1ecfi ch\u00e0ng, bao l\u00e2u n\u00e0ng c\u00f2n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m y\u00eau ch\u00e0ng, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ch\u00e0ng, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ch\u00e0ng th\u1eafng v\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ecdi xung kh\u1eafc trong ch\u00e0ng, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u00eau h\u1ee7y s\u1ee3i gi\u00e2y li\u00ean h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Sau c\u00f9ng, n\u00e0ng s\u1ebd th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ee9a con d\u00e2u c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o l\u1ea5y n\u00e0ng ra kh\u1ecfi tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

L\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00e0y xem ra kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem ra bi\u1ebft t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n m\u1ea1 l\u1ef5 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ch\u1ed3ng r\u1eb1ng qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 cho d\u1eabu ch\u00fang m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y n\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o n\u00e0ng v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh qua n\u00e0ng, ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp kh\u1ecfi b\u00e0 m\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng may m\u1eafn c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u00edt bi \u0111\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u00edt \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nguy hi\u1ec3m n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00eda b\u00ean v\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p m\u00e0 hai gia \u0111inh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cm\u00f4n \u0111\u0103ng h\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i\u201d hay ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t qu\u00e1 xa, ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb hay b\u1ecb coi th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean v\u1ee3. N\u1ebfu ch\u00e0ng tin r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00e0ng xem \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng qui lu\u1eadt nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n d\u00e0nh cho n\u00e0ng. Ch\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c n\u00e0ng ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd g\u1eb7t s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t m\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 gieo. Nh\u1eefng y\u00eau s\u00e1ch, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may, b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i quan ni\u1ec7m d\u00e0nh cho ph\u00e1i nam m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u01b0u th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c \u00f4ng m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m. S\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u01a1i d\u1eady v\u00e0 xem ra v\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e1ch s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3. D\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c xem ra l\u00e0 do b\u00ean v\u1ee3, th\u1eadt ra n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 hay \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. L\u00ea V\u0103n Qu\u1ea3ng Psy.D.\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

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Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u1ebfu nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c n\u00e0o trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn chung c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2994,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[83],"series":[],"class_list":["post-6670","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-doi-song-gia-dinh","tag-lm-phero-le-van-quang"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6670","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6670"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6670\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6670"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6670"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6670"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=6670"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}