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<\/a>Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ed9ng l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xin gia nh\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c ra \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi ch\u00fang ta ra \u0111i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn thay th\u1ebf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\nNh\u01b0ng trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn l\u00e0m con nu\u00f4i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c thay th\u1ebf, b\u1edfi l\u1ebd c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1eb7t bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u00e0 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, d\u1eabu khi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i xa c\u00e1ch gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay v\u00ec ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t s\u00e2u xa v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Ngay khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ra \u0111i v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n nh\u01b0 ch\u1ebft ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u1eabn c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1eadm t\u00ecnh th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft qua nh\u1eefng n\u00e9n h\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u00e1 hoa\u2026m\u00e0 d\u1eabu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft \u0111i. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec thi\u00eang li\u00eang cao qu\u00ed m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 vun tr\u1ed3ng d\u1eabu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n \u1edf hay \u0111i xa.<\/p>\n
Ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t nam, gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f2n mang m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc \u0111a di\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00ed h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t nam c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec3u c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed trong \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng v\u1ec1 chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nhau; l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u1eef tr\u1ebb, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi con c\u00e1i, ch\u00e1u ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00f4ng coi, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh; l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong gia t\u1ed9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o h\u00f3a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chu \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed9; l\u00e0 to\u00e0 \u00e1n, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh; l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, l\u00e0m \u0103n, bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n, d\u1eddi ch\u1ed7\u2026 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0n h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng gi\u00fap nhau th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n; l\u00e0 c\u01a1 quan tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng an sinh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh; l\u00e0 ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01b0\u1ee3n ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0103n l\u1edbn m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 hy v\u1ecdng; l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh x\u00e1, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 khi \u1ed1m \u0111au h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m nom, s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh; l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7n an d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed7 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i trong s\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u00ean \u0111\u00e0n con ch\u00e1u trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed \u1ea5m c\u00fang gia \u0111\u00ecnh; l\u00e0 n\u01a1i an ngh\u1ec9 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa g\u1ecdi v\u1ec1, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed trong \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1eeb c\u00e1c n\u01a1i mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n chung quanh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ti\u1ec5n \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea7n m\u1ed9 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng; sau h\u1ebft, gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t nam c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i th\u1edd t\u1ef1, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e0n th\u1edd t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1 b\u00ean kia th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed9 ph\u00f9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1u v\u1eadt cao qu\u00ed m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef g\u00ecn n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng an vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. <\/p>\n
Khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i: T\u00f4i \u0111i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 th\u00ec nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng, m\u00e0 \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft. R\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1edbn \u0111au v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng d\u1eabu sao gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m, l\u00e0 n\u01a1i y\u00ean \u1ee7i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm v\u1ec1 khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf v\u00e0 xa l\u00e1nh ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi con l\u00e3ng t\u1eed trong ph\u00fac \u00e2m.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh thi\u00eang li\u00eang n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u00eam th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, v\u00e0 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u1eady th\u00ec, khi g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c, nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gia \u0111\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n
Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, khi g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00e0y l\u00e0: ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1, t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o v\u00e0 l\u00ean \u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: n\u1ebfu anh \u1ea5y hay ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00f4i b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng c\u0169ng s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0y l\u00e0: n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. D\u1eabu cho ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eadt b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh cho ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i nhau, m\u01b0u s\u00e1t nhau h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u00edch chi\u1ebfn tranh h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111i t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng m\u01b0u m\u00f4, th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00ean \u00e1n, t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng n\u00ean bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n x\u1ea5u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ed1t c\u1ea3. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd?<\/p>\n
D\u1eabu cho h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, \u0103n c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t b\u00e0n, ng\u1ee7 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t gi\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 nhau? C\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a nhau nh\u01b0 th\u00edch n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n, th\u00edch ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n , th\u00edch u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u2026 nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00f3 ra kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m linh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd xa l\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng xa c\u00e1ch nhau v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nhau v\u00e0 y\u00eau nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eadt ra, ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng tranh quy\u1ec1n tranh l\u1ee3i, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c h\u1ecd ra t\u1ed1i t\u0103m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a. Trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nhau \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang d\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u1eddng thu\u1eadt gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd xem ra l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ai sai ai \u0111\u00fang v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng sai d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang hay sai. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi sai hay \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n
Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ec7t ph\u00e1i m\u1eddi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7c n\u01a1i nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mang d\u1ea7u th\u01a1m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n Ch\u00faa kh\u00f3c n\u1ee9c n\u1edf, l\u1ea5y t\u00f3c lau kh\u00f4 v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y thu\u1ed1c th\u01a1m thoa ch\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ec7t ph\u00e1i ngh\u0129 th\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng: n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u00f4t ti\u00ean tri ch\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ai, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i\u1ebfm n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u00f9ng n\u00e0y. Ch\u00faa bi\u1ebft \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0:\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n \u00a0Simon, T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng.<\/em><\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p: Xin Ng\u00e0i c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i.\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n V\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00f3 hai con n\u1ee3. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ee3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ee3 \u00edt. C\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee7 n\u1ee3 tha cho. V\u1eady ai trong h\u1ecd s\u1ebd y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 h\u01a1n?<\/em><\/p>\n \u00a0Simon th\u01b0a: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha nhi\u1ec1u.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n Ch\u00faa n\u00f3i: \u00d4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n T\u00f4i, c\u00f2n ch\u1ecb ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n T\u00f4i, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea5y t\u00f3c m\u00ecnh lau kh\u00f4. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9c thu\u1ed1c th\u01a1m tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u T\u00f4i, c\u00f2n ch\u1ecb ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5 thu\u1ed1c th\u01a1m tr\u00ean ch\u00e2n T\u00f4i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o \u00f4ng, t\u1ed9i ch\u1ecb ta r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha r\u1ed3i, v\u00ec ch\u1ecb ta \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u. K\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha \u00edt th\u00ec y\u00eau m\u1ebfn \u00edt.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n \u00a0R\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: T\u1ed9i con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha r\u1ed3i. H\u00e3y \u0111i b\u00ecnh an !<\/em> (Lc 7,36-8:2)<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea7y t\u1ed1t hay l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00fang hay l\u00e0 sai m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd hay kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00ednh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ho\u00e1n c\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa th\u00ec kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n. Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn ch\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng tai h\u1ecd c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eebng.<\/p>\n H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh an vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta vui m\u1eebng, ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u00edch n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u01b0ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bu\u1ed3n r\u1ea7u \u0111au kh\u1ed5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, v\u00ec l\u1eddi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9a ch\u1ea5t trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n h\u1ecd, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i qua nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, nh\u1eefng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng l\u1ec7, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng l\u00f2ng th\u1ed5n th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean \u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1edfi l\u1ebd Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ea5u r\u00f5 ti\u1ebfng l\u00f2ng th\u1ed1ng h\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb qua nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng l\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng h\u1ed1i \u0103n n\u0103n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfng l\u00f2ng kho\u1eafc kho\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u0111ang v\u1ecdng l\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb d\u1eabu ch\u1ecb ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1t l\u00ean m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m kh\u00e1t mong \u0111\u00f3, n\u00ean Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: T\u1ed9i con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha. H\u00e3y \u0111i v\u1ec1 b\u00ecnh an.<\/p>\n Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o v\u00e0 l\u00ean \u00e1n m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00f4 bi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ni\u1ec1m an vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Xin c\u1ea7u ch\u00fac c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i t\u00e2n h\u00f4n lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea5y trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb.<\/p>\n T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. 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