{"id":6555,"date":"2019-08-24T15:53:36","date_gmt":"2019-08-24T08:53:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=6555"},"modified":"2019-08-24T16:33:58","modified_gmt":"2019-08-24T09:33:58","slug":"tinh-yeu-mot-nhu-cau-can-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/tinh-yeu-mot-nhu-cau-can-ban\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU, M\u1ed8T NHU C\u1ea6U C\u0102N B\u1ea2N"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4434 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02-205x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"205\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02-205x300.jpg 205w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02-250x365.jpg 250w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02-550x804.jpg 550w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02-123x180.jpg 123w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02-342x500.jpg 342w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Mother_Teresa_02.jpg 564w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 205px) 100vw, 205px\" \/><\/a>M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i n\u1ecd, m\u1eb9 Theresa gh\u00e9 l\u1ea1i c\u0103n nh\u00e0 h\u1ea5p h\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eeba m\u1edbi mang v\u00e0o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 l\u00e3o m\u00ecnh qu\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ebb r\u00e1ch, n\u01b0\u1edbc da \u0111en v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u00f4i th\u1ed1i. Ch\u00ednh m\u1eb9 Theresa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eafm r\u1eeda v\u00e0 lau ch\u00f9i nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u00e0. M\u1eb9 t\u00ednh l\u1ea5y thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec3 tha v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u00e0 \u0111ang h\u1ea5p h\u1ed1i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng v\u00ec qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3i s\u1ee3 kh\u00f3 qua kh\u1ecfi, n\u00ean m\u1eb9 t\u1ef1 \u0111i n\u1ea5u cho b\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e9n s\u00fap r\u1ea5t ngon v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng mang l\u1ea1i cho b\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat an \u1ee7i. Sau khi n\u1ea5u xong, m\u1eb9 mang s\u00fap l\u00ean cho b\u00e0. B\u00e0 c\u1ee5 h\u00fap ch\u00e9n s\u00fap v\u00e0 h\u00fap lu\u00f4n m\u1ed9t h\u01a1i h\u1ebft n\u1eeda ch\u00e9n. Ch\u00e9n s\u00fap qu\u00e1 ngon n\u00ean b\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng. V\u1edbi d\u00f2ng l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i th\u1ec1u th\u00e0o, b\u00e0 ng\u1ea9ng \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00ean nh\u00ecn m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; T\u1ea1i sao b\u00e0 l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?<br \/>\n&#8211; V\u00ec t\u00f4i y\u00eau m\u1ebfn b\u00e0, m\u1eb9 Theresa tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t tia s\u00e1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac d\u1eabu c\u00f2n ch\u00fat nghi ng\u1edd, xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u00e0, b\u00e0 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 Theresa:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; B\u00e0 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa: t\u1ea1i sao b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?<\/p>\n<p>M\u1eb9 Theresa ni\u1ec1m n\u1ee1 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi:<br \/>\n&#8211; V\u00ec t\u00f4i y\u00eau m\u1ebfn b\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d4i b\u00e0, b\u00e0 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa: t\u1ea1i sao b\u00e0 l\u1ea1i t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?<br \/>\n&#8211; V\u00ec t\u00f4i y\u00eau m\u1ebfn b\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Nghe \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, l\u00f2ng b\u00e0 l\u00e3o \u0111\u1ea7y x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u00e0 n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t tay m\u1eb9 Theresa k\u00e9o v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda b\u00e0, gi\u1ecdng th\u1ec1u th\u00e0o n\u00f3i l\u00ean l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n. \u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft b\u00e0 m\u1edf to nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb t\u1eeb kh\u00e9p l\u1ea1i, linh h\u1ed3n b\u00e0 \u0111i v\u1ec1 b\u00ean kia th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/big-love2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1100 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/big-love2-300x222.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"222\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/big-love2-300x222.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/big-love2-250x185.jpg 250w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/big-love2-243x180.jpg 243w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/big-love2-405x300.jpg 405w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/big-love2.jpg 469w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Qua c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y: t\u1eadn \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng g\u00ec?<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nhu c\u1ea7u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1edfi v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 ra \u0111i n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/li>\n<li>H\u1ecdc sinh s\u1ebd b\u1ecf tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/li>\n<li>V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd ly h\u00f4n n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/li>\n<li>Tu s\u0129 s\u1ebd b\u1ecf d\u00f2ng v\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c, ch\u1ee7ng sinh s\u1ebd b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ecba ph\u1eadn n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/li>\n<li>M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecf ngay c\u1ea3 gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>B\u1ed1n n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 v\u1ec1 H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y th\u1ea7n 4: T\u00e2m l\u00fd B\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n, H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 Gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdc kia, c\u00f3 1 th\u1ea7y gi\u01a1 tay n\u00f3i: Th\u01b0a cha, ng\u00e0y mai cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0a cha \u0111i th\u0103m m\u1ed9t s\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1edf m\u1ed9t ch\u00f9a g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. C\u00e1c th\u1ea7y nghe th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec1u c\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea7m l\u00ean. T\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n ch\u1eafc c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u1ea1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. V\u00e0 th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp: M\u1ed7i cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang con c\u00f3 \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang con \u0111i th\u0103m c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0. N\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u01b0 c\u00f4. S\u01b0 c\u00f4 n\u1ea7y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ed \u1ea9n: m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam kia c\u00f4 ng\u1ee7, m\u1ed9t con r\u1eafn b\u00f2 v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng c\u00f4, r\u1ed3i b\u00f2 l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4, v\u00e0 b\u00f2 l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4, c\u00f4 gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh ch\u1ed5i d\u1eady. Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con r\u1eafn, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f4 k\u00eau l\u00ean: L\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa! xin c\u1ee9u con. L\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa! Xin c\u1ee9u con. C\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng k\u00eau Ph\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i k\u00eau Ch\u00faa xin c\u1ee9u con. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1 \u2026..th\u00ec ra s\u01b0 c\u00f4 v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng tu, v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng n\u00ean c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu \u0103n, thi\u1ebfu m\u1eb7c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<h3>Nh\u01b0ng T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h3>\n<p>T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m, m\u1ed9t tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a g\u00f3i tr\u1ecdn trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i h\u00e0ng ch\u1eef th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ec5, b\u1ee1i l\u1ebd n\u00f3 r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i bao la nh\u01b0 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi, s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m ng\u00fat ng\u00e0n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ea3i qua bao th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, bi\u1ebft bao thi\u00ean t\u00e0i thi s\u0129, v\u0103n s\u0129, h\u1ecda s\u0129, nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thi\u00ean ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a hai ch\u1eef T\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a l\u1ed9t h\u1ebft \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o t\u1eeb c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn trong m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau cho \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u00f4n ng\u00e0n \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng s\u00e2u xa, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1eadt ra m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau. M\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao l\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi ca t\u1ee5ng T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau. Kh\u00f4ng ai ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n tranh lu\u1eadn T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau tu\u1ef3 theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e2y ra b\u1ee1i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t k\u00edch th\u00edch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn g\u00e2y n\u00ean s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. H\u00e0nh vi ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u00e1ch m\u00e1y m\u00f3c t\u00f9y theo s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1ch r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i trong th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i h\u00f4m nay. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn b\u1ee1i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. N\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 l\u00fd tr\u00ed. Khi suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta xem x\u00e9t c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i hay kh\u00f4ng l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. C\u00f3 t\u1ee9c l\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi d\u00e1m li\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi. C\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00f3 m\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi d\u00e1m x\u1ea3 th\u00e2n li\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch.<\/p>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1ea7y. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t \u00e1i t\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd tr\u01b0\u1edbc, kh\u00f4ng c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. ch\u00fang ta cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u01a1 duy\u00ean, hay m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7n may m\u1eafn n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta, c\u00f2n ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ecb b\u00e3o t\u1ed1. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ecb t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 b\u1ecb chinh ph\u1ee5c b\u1ee1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1c l\u01b0\u1ee3ng huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111i tr\u00ean m\u00e2y, tr\u00ean gi\u00f3, m\u1ea5t \u0103n, m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ee1i \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c sinh l\u00fd nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u00f5a \u0111\u00e1ng. T\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch khoa h\u1ecdc, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bao g\u1ed3m trong t\u1eeb ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i, t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m nh\u00e8 nh\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt. M\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1eeba ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u1eeba th\u1eadt ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1eadt, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 quan. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi cho s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Tuy kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Say \u0111\u1eafm<\/h3>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn phi th\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n cu\u1ed3ng phong b\u00e3o t\u1ed1, c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn g\u1ea5p tr\u0103m ng\u00e0n l\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n gi\u00f3 l\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi. Ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam n\u1eef l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00f4 bi\u00ean khi\u1ebfn hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u00ea h\u1ed3n tr\u1eadn, \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o, cu\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 say \u0111\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 ng\u1ee3i, so \u0111o, ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a g\u00ec n\u1eefa, n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi say t\u00ecnh hay si t\u00ecnh. Theo b\u00e1c s\u0129 Love, ng\u01b0\u1eddi si t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch say m\u00ea, mi\u1ec7t m\u00e0i b\u1ee1i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi si t\u00ecnh: n\u00f3 g\u1ed3m c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i, m\u1ea5t \u0103n m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7 nh\u01b0ng ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c l\u1ea1i t\u0103ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng say thu\u1ed1c. N\u00f3 l\u01a1 l\u01a1 l\u1eedng l\u1eedng, n\u1eeda t\u1ec9nh n\u1eeda m\u00ea. Th\u00e2n x\u00e1c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u1edf tr\u00ean m\u00e2y gi\u00f3. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebft ra m\u1ed9t l\u1ecdai h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ed9 \u00f3c ch\u00fang ta d\u00e1m li\u1ec1u l\u0129nh cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng khi s\u1ef1 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00ec nh\u1eefng m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi th\u1ea7n kinh s\u1ebd tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t gia v\u1ecb l\u00e0m x\u00fac t\u00e1c. T\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o th\u1ea7n kinh l\u00e0m cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi si t\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i g\u00ec tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u1ea1c quan th\u00edch th\u00fa n\u1eefa. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean l\u01a1n, c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 \u00edch v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n<h3>2. \u00dd h\u1ee3p<\/h3>\n<p>S\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 say \u0111\u1eafm c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1ef1c l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m \u00fd h\u1ee3p m\u1edbi gi\u00fap \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n b\u1ea3o to\u00e0n v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 qua n\u0103m th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu. S\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p \u00fd ch\u00ed s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft thu\u1eadn h\u00f2a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft tr\u1ecdng k\u00ednh nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhau, v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng m\u1ecdi c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd h\u1ee3p ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 gi\u00fap cho hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, bi\u1ebft ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c th\u1eafng v\u01b0\u1ee3t nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap nhau ki\u00ean tr\u00ec nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng may m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. Nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u0103n s\u00f3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhau, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nh\u00e3 nh\u1eb7n t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi nhau, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt tha thi\u1ebft, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec1n h\u00f2a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t h\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Chung t\u00ecnh<\/h3>\n<p>Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau nhau, h\u1ecd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng th\u1ec1 h\u1ee9a trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nhau. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed3n. Ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u0129nh c\u1eedu l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c gi\u00fap h\u1ecd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng hy sinh v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi an vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00ednh khi ch\u00fang ta trung th\u00e0nh trong nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn m\u1ea1nh nhanh ch\u00f3ng, v\u00e0 trong s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1eabn nhau ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 mang l\u1ea1i cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng chu\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y thanh b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7m \u1ea5m.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Trao hi\u1ebfn<\/h3>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u01b0a hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao h\u1ecd d\u00e1m d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn cho nhau khi hai t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ch\u01b0a d\u00e1m n\u00f3i l\u00ean l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 \u01b0\u1edbc. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n n\u00f3i l\u00ean l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 nguy\u1ec1n chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn cho nhau \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i vui h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u00ean nhau trong s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p li\u00ean k\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi b\u00e0 con h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng hai b\u00ean c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 quen thu\u1ed9c trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 giao k\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u1ec1 h\u1ee9a c\u00f9ng chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u01b0\u1eddng mu\u1ed1n sinh con \u0111\u1ebb c\u00e1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 coi vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd v\u1edbi nhau trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n cho d\u1eabu y\u00eau nhau ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh, g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n sinh con \u0111\u1ebb c\u00e1i, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7, m\u1ed1i th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd suy gi\u1ea3m. \u0110\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng bi\u1ebft t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n cho nhau, bi\u1ebft h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n sinh con c\u00e1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 cam k\u1ebft trung th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn cho nhau su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<p>Khi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129 ngay \u0111\u1ebfn thi s\u0129 T\u00fa X\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o. V\u1edbi \u00f4ng T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0:<\/p>\n<p><em>M\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ta tuy hai m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Ta v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh tuy m\u1ed9t m\u00e0 hai<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Hai c\u00e2u th\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee7 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00ean g\u00ec?<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ed1n n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i counseling \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4. T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e1u t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u00fd th\u00fa c\u1ee7a c\u00f4:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ch\u00fa \u01a1i! Ch\u00e1u g\u1eb7p anh n\u1ea7y trong m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c t\u00ecnh c\u1edd. Nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fac m\u1eebng. Trong l\u00fac m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ca h\u00e1t nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa v\u1edbi nhau vui v\u1ebb, b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean anh n\u1ea7y nh\u00ecn ch\u00e1u s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t. R\u1ed3i anh suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i l\u00e2u nh\u01b0 mu\u1ed1n l\u1ee5c l\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c. Sau \u0111\u00f3 anh \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u v\u00e0 n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Xin l\u1ed7i! C\u00f4 t\u00ean g\u00ec?<br \/>\n&#8211; Em t\u00ean \u00c1i Nhi<br \/>\n&#8211; H\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p \u00c1i Nhi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u r\u1ed3i. M\u00ecnh c\u00f2n nh\u1edb n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t quen quen, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?<br \/>\n&#8211; Em c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00ednh c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 ng\u1ee1 ng\u00e0ng, qu\u00e1 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9 th\u00eam l\u00fang t\u00fang. V\u00e0 c\u00e0ng l\u00fang t\u00fang, c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m cho hai g\u00f2 m\u00e1 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00e0ng th\u00eam xinh x\u1eafn. C\u0169ng t\u1eeb gi\u1edd ph\u00fat \u1ea5y hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e3y ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129 xem: C\u00f3 h\u00e0ng t\u1ef7 t\u1ef7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean tr\u1ea7n gian nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean n\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh quen thu\u1ed9c n\u00e0o n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 n\u01a1i c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u1ea7y th\u00f4i. \u00a0Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 huy\u1ec1n di\u1ec7u, kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng anh ch\u00e0ng ma lanh, l\u00e9m mi\u1ec7ng, bi\u1ebft n\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ea7m, bi\u1ebft d\u1ef1ng chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m quen, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch g\u1ee3i chuy\u1ec7n cho nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ban \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin r\u1eb1ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p nhau, t\u1eebng quen bi\u1ebft nhau, v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y xa x\u01b0a \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, t\u1eebng quen bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1eadt ra, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1eafc nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u1ea7y: b\u1ed7ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng: n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea7m th\u00ec h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp g\u1eb7p anh hay ch\u1ecb \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i, v\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 n\u00e9t g\u00ec quen quen, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i k\u00fd \u1ee9c, l\u1ee5c l\u1ecdi, h\u1ed3i t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e3i nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e2ng, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u1edf m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u01b0 quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt hay nh\u01b0 tri\u1ebft gia Platon \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng: ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u1edf trong ti\u1ec1n ki\u1ebfp v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng thu\u1edf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng, v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u1edf ti\u1ec1n ki\u1ebfp m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ngay trong ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, anh ch\u1ecb em, c\u00f4 b\u00e1c, hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra, \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5p \u1ee7 ch\u00fang ta. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, d\u00ecu d\u1eaft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. V\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 qu\u00ed m\u1ebfn h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u00eam \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u00f3a nh\u00f2a kh\u1ecfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fang ta. N\u00ean m\u1ed9t khi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o hay gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen thu\u1ed9c m\u00e0 th\u1eadt ra ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0169ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, cho d\u1eabu l\u00e0 m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 g\u1eb7p l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u, ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec thu h\u00fat, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec quy\u1ebfn luy\u1ebfn, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec g\u1eafn b\u00f3, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta trao g\u1edfi m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 duy\u00ean ph\u1eadn do \u00f4ng t\u01a1 b\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7t n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft, c\u00f2n ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an b\u00e0i c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/family_01.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2855 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/family_01-260x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"260\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/family_01-260x300.jpg 260w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/family_01-250x289.jpg 250w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/family_01-156x180.jpg 156w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/family_01-433x500.jpg 433w, https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/family_01.jpg 476w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 260px) 100vw, 260px\" \/><\/a>V\u00e2ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 duy\u00ean ph\u1eadn, l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a con tim, l\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a l\u00fd tr\u00ed, v\u1eeba g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ngay ra: \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm, l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00ecnh theo \u0111u\u1ed5\u1ec9, l\u00e0 b\u1ee9c ch\u00e2n dung m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n v\u1ebd, n\u00ean v\u1eeba nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 T\u00fa X\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ed1t l\u00ean ngay:<\/p>\n<p><em>M\u00ccNH V\u1edaI TA TUY HAI M\u00c0 M\u1ed8T<\/em><\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t: M\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, m\u1ed9t \u00fd ch\u00ed, m\u1ed9t con tim, m\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng d\u1eabu cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u00a0l\u00e0 hai. T\u00fa X\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed1t l\u00ean v\u1ea7n th\u01a1 th\u1ee9 hai:<\/p>\n<p><em>TA V\u1edaI M\u00ccNH TUY M\u1ed8T M\u00c0 HAI.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1i con s\u1ed1 2 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00ean cho ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng: c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed1 ng\u0103n c\u00e1ch, m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu m\u00e0 d\u1eabu cho h\u1ecd c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y, mu\u1ed1n x\u00f3a b\u1ecf, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00ednh \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t, nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t t\u00f2an c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u00f5a m\u00e3n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa cho nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t t\u00f2an c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec th\u1ebf, T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><em>S\u1ef1 Ch\u1ea5p Nh\u1eadn. T\u1ea1i sao?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ed tr\u1ecdng. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn lao v\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i kinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ecb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Khi t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong t\u00f4i b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed7 v\u1ee1. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ti\u00eau h\u1ee7y ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edf v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n khi \u1edf nh\u00e0. L\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u00e1c t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi lang thang nay \u0111\u00e2y mai \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1ed9i l\u00e0 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi trong \u0111\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi, mang l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 d\u1eabu cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng khung b\u1ee1i c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u00e9n m\u00e0n. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0ng ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lay \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 b\u1ee1i s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd m\u00e3i m\u00e3i n\u1eb1m y\u00ean ng\u1ee7. S\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0m th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang n\u1eb1m y\u00ean ngh\u1ec9 trong t\u00f4i. \u00a0Ch\u1ec9 khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau trong c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u00e2u xa c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u00f2an to\u00e0n \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ed tr\u1ecdng b\u1ee1i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0m, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0m tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ee1i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0m m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ee1i ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00e1 bi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u00e1 bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch sai l\u1ec7ch, ho\u1eb7c c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch qua loa nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 xem m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00ec \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n. Khi t\u00f4i ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu n\u00f3i trong c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Kh\u00f4ng mong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec n\u01a1i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 gi\u1ebft h\u1ecd, l\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4 v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u00fat sinh l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i hay v\u00e0 c\u00e1i d\u1edf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>Anh Minh Nguy\u1ec5n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u00e2u xa v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ea7y, trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i t\u0129nh t\u00e2m ri\u00eang cho ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng kh\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 anh. Anh n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch g\u1ea1t ngang \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f4 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tao nh\u00e3. C\u00f4 bu\u1ed3n gi\u1eadn \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi tr\u1eadn b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 tr\u00ean tivi, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u. Ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat sau, c\u00f4 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f9i g\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbng, khoai t\u00e2y chi\u00ean, mi\u1ebfng b\u00e1nh ng\u1ecdt v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lon c\u00f4ca. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp s\u1eb5n g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc khay. C\u00f4 \u0111\u1eb7t chi\u1ebfc khay tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f9i t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: Em y\u00eau anh, r\u1ed3i h\u00f4n l\u00ean m\u00e1 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ebfp. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch qu\u00e1 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01a1 ng\u1ea9n, r\u1ed3i suy ngh\u0129: m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ea7y s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c m\u1ea1nh. S\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 chinh ph\u1ee5c t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t chi\u1ebfc khay xu\u1ed1ng b\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u1ebfp n\u01a1i n\u00e0ng \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u1eefa \u0103n, v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i n\u00e0ng. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u r\u01b0ng r\u01b0ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00e0 h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n cho nhau.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea1i l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i cho cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><em>S\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. Trong nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. Thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u0103ng hoa v\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 nan \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, th\u1eadt v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 cho h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf b\u00e0y l\u00f2ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh lu\u00f4n \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi nhau n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n cho cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00f9a thu n\u0103m 2010, C\u00f4 Th\u00f9y My \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00fat b\u1ea7u t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 c\u00f4 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed5i n\u1eefa trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Sau khi m\u1eddi v\u00e0o v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 sau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u0103m h\u1ecfi x\u00e3 giao c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, c\u00f4 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chia s\u1ebb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Th\u01b0a cha, con mu\u1ed1n t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi cha m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111ang \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1edd tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. Con \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 con c\u0169ng n\u00f3i cho anh \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. Con \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. Con \u0111\u00e3 than phi\u1ec1n v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng con r\u1eb1ng con c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng anh ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3. Con y\u00eau c\u00e1c con v\u00e0 ch\u00fang y\u00eau con. C\u00f2n Tu\u1ea5n ch\u1ed3ng con, con gh\u00e9t anh ta l\u1eafm. Su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m con \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0: n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng, gi\u1eb7t gi\u0169, \u1ee7i \u0111\u1ed3 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t trong vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh ta. Con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng. Anh ta kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng con. Anh ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 nh\u00e0, c\u00f3 xe \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1ecdi ti\u1ec1n chi ph\u00ed anh ta \u0111\u1ec1u thanh to\u00e1n. Con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do \u0111i l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng. Anh ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t r\u1ed3i. C\u00f2n con, con ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 h\u1ea5t h\u1ee7i, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng con. Con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n anh \u1ea5y coi th\u01b0\u1eddng con. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. Con ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. C\u00f4 chia s\u1ebb trong m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00f4 v\u00e0n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><em>M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>L\u00e0m c\u00e1i ngh\u1ec1 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nghe nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n m\u00e0 \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui. T\u00f4i \u0111ang lo: kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con b\u1ec7nh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng? Sau \u0111\u00e2y, c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n bu\u1ed3n m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00eau ra \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y: trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao ban cho nhau ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng sinh hoa tr\u00e1i.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t Nam. C\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng xem ra c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ba \u0111\u1ee9a con. Trong l\u00fac ba \u0111\u1ee9a con ng\u1ed3i ch\u01a1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u00e3i \u0111\u1eadu xe, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0o xin g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe chuy\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap g\u00ec cho h\u1ecd, ch\u1ecb v\u1ee3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Th\u01b0a cha, t\u1ee5i con c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ba \u0111\u1ee9a con: hai trai v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ee9a l\u1edbn c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 Tuy\u00ean. L\u00fac c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00e1u Tuy\u00ean r\u1ea5t ngoan v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi. L\u00fac n\u00e0o ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng t\u1ecf ra h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd g\u00e2y r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i cho ai c\u1ea3. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng con t\u1ea1o m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho ch\u00e1u: cho ch\u00e1u sinh ho\u1ea1t v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ea1o, sinh ho\u1ea1t thi\u1ebfu nhi th\u00e1nh th\u1ec3, tham gia gi\u00fap l\u1ec5 nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00e1u l\u00ean 14 tu\u1ed5i, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng g\u00e2y g\u1ed7, \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u1edbi c\u00e1c em trong nh\u00e0. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00e2y g\u1ed7 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e2u. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i. N\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ee5i con. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u1ee5i con th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1u bu\u1ed3n bu\u1ed3n, r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 \u1edf l\u00ec trong \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t ngoan. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00e1u h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o, hay c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ee5i con tin ch\u1eafc l\u00e0: t\u1ee5i con \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 ch\u00e1u trong k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m t\u1ee5i con kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t. L\u00e0m sao m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ch\u1ea1y r\u00f4ng ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc theo th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f3, r\u1ed3i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn? M\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, \u0103n c\u1eafp, u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u1ee5i con ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o tin con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi n\u00f3. L\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u1ecf ra \u1ee7 r\u0169 v\u00e0 l\u1ea7m l\u00ec. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn m\u1eb7t t\u1ee5i con. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ee5i con n\u1eefa. N\u0103m nay k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t t\u1ec7.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd ch\u00e1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf t\u1eeb bao gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ecb n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u0110\u1ec3 con nh\u1edb xem. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00e1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 14 tu\u1ed5i. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kho\u1ea3ng 2 n\u0103m, \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u1ee5i con \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn. Trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp s\u00e1u, con th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u00e1n \u0111i h\u1ecdc. Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00e1n \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd lu\u00f4n. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 n\u1eefa m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch \u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y ch\u00e1u c\u00e0ng \u00edt n\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb n\u0103m nay. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng sinh ho\u1ea1t ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a n\u1eefa. N\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xa r\u1eddi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u0169 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y rong ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ea1n g\u00e2y r\u1ed1i. T\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u0169ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u1eb3n v\u00e0 n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thi\u1ebft tha g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f4i k\u00e9o n\u00f3 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i. T\u1ee5i con \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0ng v\u00f4 hi\u1ec7u. T\u1ee5i con th\u1eadt t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd?<\/p>\n<p>Sau khi l\u1eafng nghe hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng anh n\u00e0y chia s\u1ebb, t\u00f4i cho h\u1ecd ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. V\u00e0 cho g\u1ecdi b\u00e9 Tuy\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i. B\u00e9 Tuy\u00ean l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh ngay v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p trai. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u tho\u00e1ng v\u1ebb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1eabn tr\u00e1nh. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t s\u00e1ng d\u1ea1 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e1u n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u c\u1ee5t ng\u1ee7n v\u1edbi gi\u1ecdng c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, khi n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee7 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con tr\u1eeb m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n.<br \/>\n&#8211; Kh\u00f4ng ai quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn sao? T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i. Con th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u1ecd, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Con ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 ra \u0111i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Trong su\u1ed1t bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, t\u00f4i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e1u Tuy\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m qua, ch\u00e1u Tuy\u00ean c\u0169ng t\u1eebng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 \u1ea5m \u00e1p b\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng l\u00fac m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc \u1ea5y c\u00e0ng m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n \u0111i. Ch\u00e1u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quay sang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n trong l\u00f2ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 gia t\u0103ng.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1eadt ra, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u Tuy\u00ean th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y n\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u Tuy\u00ean r\u1ea5t m\u1ef1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau n\u00f3. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u0103n b\u1ea3n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0: c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u Tuy\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf b\u00e0y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con: c\u01a1n \u0103n, nh\u00e0 \u1edf, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o. Trong khi \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho con nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nghe ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadu b\u00e9 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y sau, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Con nh\u1edb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1ecd, khi \u0111\u00f3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 6 hay 7 tu\u1ed5i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u00e2y gi\u1edd con v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u00ean l\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, con ch\u01a1i banh v\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 k\u00ednh c\u1eefa s\u1ed5. Con r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0o r\u1eebng tr\u1ed1n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u1eb9 \u0111i t\u00ecm con v\u1ec1. Con r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Con c\u00f2n nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Khi b\u1ed1 con v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c c\u1eefa s\u1ed5 b\u1ecb v\u1ee1, v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng roi qu\u1ea5t con t\u00e0n t\u1ec7. N\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft b\u00e9 tr\u00e0o ra.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: R\u1ed3i con n\u00f3i g\u00ec?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00f3 n\u00f3i: Con kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 cay \u0111\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u00f4i qua, nh\u01b0ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec sao s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, trong khi nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00e1c n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch, c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn c\u1eadu b\u00e9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a n\u00f3? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t?<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n n\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. Th\u1eadt ra, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u \u00fd.<\/p>\n<p>Qua nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 tr\u00ean, gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a hai ch\u1eef T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. Ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta th\u00eam phong ph\u00fa v\u00e0 thi v\u1ecb, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1edbi mang l\u1ea1i cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ee9c quy\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng qua \u0111i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i trong tr\u00e1i tim con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1ee9c quy\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng trao ban t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00ec ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao ban \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Lm. L\u00ea V\u0103n Qu\u1ea3ng Psy.D. <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ch\u1ee9c quy\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng qua \u0111i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i trong tr\u00e1i tim con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1ee9c quy\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. 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