{"id":6016,"date":"2019-05-25T10:32:26","date_gmt":"2019-05-25T03:32:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=6016"},"modified":"2019-05-25T10:33:07","modified_gmt":"2019-05-25T03:33:07","slug":"hoc-khiem-ton","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/hoc-khiem-ton\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u1ecdc khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"\"<\/a>M<\/span>\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o s\u0129 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. Ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean h\u1ecfi, \u201cTh\u01b0a th\u1ea7y, con mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. Con ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n?\u201d \u0110\u1ea1o s\u0129 \u0111\u00e1p, \u201cH\u00e3y \u0111i ra ph\u1ed1 ch\u1ee3 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng ai th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m h\u01a1n con v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho h\u1ecd v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap.\u201d<\/p>\n

Nghe xong, ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 ra ph\u1ed1; anh ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m h\u01a1n anh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin v\u00f4 gia c\u01b0. Anh t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin v\u00e0 m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111i \u0103n t\u1ed1i; anh \u0111\u00e3i \u00f4ng ta m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n th\u1eadt ngon t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng san tr\u1ecdng; sau \u0111\u00f3 anh c\u00f2n cho th\u00eam m\u1ed9t \u00edt ti\u1ec1n. Anh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o s\u0129 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 anh v\u1eeba ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. Anh h\u1ecfi, \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ea7y ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y, con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n ch\u01b0a?\u201d \u201cV\u1eabn ch\u01b0a,\u201d v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o s\u0129 \u0111\u00e1p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp, \u201cV\u1eady con ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00eam n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n?\u201d V\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o s\u0129 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, \u201cCon h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ai th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m h\u01a1n con v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho h\u1ecd.\u201d Ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean t\u1ecf v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng vui \u0111\u00e1p, \u201cNh\u01b0ng con v\u1eeba l\u00e0m xong. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea7y mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho th\u00eam m\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n?\u201d \u201cV\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7,\u201d \u0111\u1ea1o s\u0129 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp, \u201cV\u1eady bao nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee7, m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m, hai tr\u0103m\u2026c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u0110\u1ea1o s\u0129 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e1p, \u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t con l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a con. Con ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n khi con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5m k\u00e9m h\u01a1n con.\u201d[1]<\/p>\n

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H\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00e1c nhau\u201d thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u201ch\u01a1n thua\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c li\u00ean l\u0129 v\u00e0 \u00e2m th\u1ea7n trong t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng.<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4m nay m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. Khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c su\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o s\u0129 khuy\u00ean d\u1ea1y ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean, bao l\u00e2u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh th\u00ec b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. S\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, v\u1ec1 danh ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. S\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n c\u0169ng m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb. Hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng b\u00e1c \u00e1i t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong \u01a1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n khi m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n tr\u00ean ai v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ai c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n tr\u00ean m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u201ch\u01a1n\u201d ai, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng ai \u201ch\u01a1n\u201d m\u00ecnh. \u201cH\u01a1n-thua\u201d \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng qua l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n x\u00e1c; nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chu\u1ea9n x\u00e1c, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00e1c nhau\u201d thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u201ch\u01a1n-thua.\u201d V\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i cho th\u1ea5y, h\u00f4m nay anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb l\u00e0 gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y mai anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eddi kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201ch\u01a1n-thua\u201d ch\u00fang ta d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh, kh\u00f4ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng khi ch\u00fang nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh sai v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebfm t\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. H\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00e1c nhau\u201d thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u201ch\u01a1n thua\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c li\u00ean l\u0129 v\u00e0 \u00e2m th\u1ea7n trong t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng. Trong t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 hai th\u1ebf l\u1ef1c; ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean l\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, chan ho\u00e0, t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i, tha th\u1ee9, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n; c\u00f2n b\u00ean kia l\u00e0 ghen gh\u00e9t, h\u1eadn th\u00f9, \u00edch k\u1ef7, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, k\u00eau c\u0103ng. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ai ai d\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 hai con th\u00fa \u1ea9n d\u1eadt trong m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t con hi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con d\u1eef. V\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh minh ho\u1ea1 n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a em, \u201cV\u1eady th\u01b0a \u00f4ng, con th\u00fa n\u00e0o s\u1ebd th\u1eafng?\u201d \u00d4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, \u201cTu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c con cho con n\u00e0o \u0103n.\u201d<\/p>\n

V\u00e2ng, tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ta \u201cnu\u00f4i\u201d con n\u00e0o, th\u00fa d\u1eef hay th\u00fa hi\u1ec1n; tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ta ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o; tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ta \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra; v\u00e0 tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ta, \u201ch\u01a1n-thua\u201d hay \u201dkh\u00e1c nhau\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7u ch\u00fac nhau t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u1eadt gi\u1ed1ng nhau c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

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