T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Gs. Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n Th\u00e0nh<\/span><\/p>\n T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 sinh ho\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n chia th\u00e0nh b\u1ed1n l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed5 t\u00fac v\u00e0 giao thoa ch\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecbt v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft :<\/p>\n – L\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn TH\u1ef0C T\u1ebe, v\u1edbi bao nhi\u00eau s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch quan, \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c thi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ba gi\u00e1c quan ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 Th\u1ecb, Th\u00ednh v\u00e0 X\u00fac gi\u00e1c.<\/p>\n – L\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng T\u01af DUY, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng : T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai, trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y? \u00dd ngh\u0129a hay l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111eo \u0111u\u1ed5i, bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0o? \u01afu ti\u00ean s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t trong bao nhi\u00eau d\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u1ea5y n\u1eb1m trong \u0111\u1ecba h\u1ea1t n\u00e0o ? M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c thi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c, trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y?<\/p>\n – L\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng X\u00daC \u0110\u1ed8NG \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u00ecnh trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 ch\u00fang n\u00f3 ra ngo\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eb1m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u1ea9n n\u00fap \u1edf b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi, hay l\u00e0 h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, t\u1ea1o c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, ho\u1eb7c g\u00e2y t\u00ea li\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n – L\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c th\u1ee9 b\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy nh\u1eefng QUAN H\u1ec6 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u00e0 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 Qu\u00ea H\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n Xuy\u00ean qua b\u1ed1n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i, \u0111\u1ec3 cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta, ngang h\u00e0ng ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n Thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00e2n, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u00e1y m\u00f3c v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng. T\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n len l\u1ecfi n\u1eb1m v\u00f9ng, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u00e8o l\u00e1i v\u00e0 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf m\u1ecdi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i n\u1ebbo v\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, trong \u0111\u1ecba h\u1ea1t ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u1eb3n th\u1ef1c, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec1 cao con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 b\u1ec7 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c :<\/p>\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00fang, k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c sai.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i t\u1ed1t, k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c x\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i h\u01a1n, k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c thua.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i bao nhi\u00eau c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi d\u1ea5n b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ee9c Tin, thay v\u00ec nh\u1eadn l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ee9 tha c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 tr\u00ean Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1, tinh th\u1ea7n nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ecdng kh\u1eafp \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2y, trong t\u00e1c phong th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng \u00ab ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh ch\u1ecb em \u00bb \u0111ang c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i v\u00e0 l\u1edf l\u00f3i, gi\u1eefa cung l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, vang v\u1ecdng trong c\u00e1c c\u00e2u n\u00f3i : \u00ab Xin Cha tha cho h\u1ecd, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0m \u00bb (Lc 23,34), hay l\u00e0 \u00abTh\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft \u00e1n m\u1ed9t ai\u00bb (Ga 8,15-16)\u2026 \u0111ang c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng \u00abthanh la ph\u00e8ng ph\u00e8ng, ch\u0169m ch\u1ecde xoang xo\u1ea3ng\u00bb, (1 Cr 13,1), trong t\u00e2m t\u01b0 v\u00e0 n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang danh hi\u1ec7u l\u00e0 \u00ab\u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4\u00bb, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c, linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n?<\/p>\n Nh\u1eb1m h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111au bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 t\u00ea li\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y, trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i chia s\u1ebb n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i xin m\u1ea1o mu\u1ed9i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 quan tr\u1ecdng sau \u0111\u00e2y :<\/p>\n – Th\u1ee9 Nh\u1ea5t : T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c \u0111ang kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 l\u00e8o l\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, k\u1ebft \u00e1n, t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh ch\u1ecb em, \u0111ang chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c nhau. Bao l\u00e2u ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n cho m\u00ecnh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng H\u00d3A GI\u1ea2I nh\u1eefng xu th\u1ebf v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n – Th\u1ee9 hai : Trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Tin v\u00e0o \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, L\u1eafng Nghe v\u00e0 Suy Ni\u1ec7m L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa \u00ab Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft \u00e1n ai c\u1ea3 \u00bb. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00ecm ra v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 kinh qua, trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi d\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 T\u1eed N\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n 1.- Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong 4 sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/p>\n Trong ph\u1ea7n M\u1ed9t n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng sinh ho\u1ea1t \u00ab l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00bb, trong b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ecba h\u1ea1t \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i t\u1edbi tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y :<\/p>\n – th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf,<\/p>\n – l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn hay l\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m,<\/p>\n – \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/p>\n – v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 trao \u0111\u1ed5i qua l\u1ea1i hai chi\u1ec1u gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n 1.1- Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y, t\u00f4i nghe v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1edbi tay ch\u00e2n hay l\u00e0 l\u00e0n da v\u00e0 th\u1edb th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f9ng chung s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed hay l\u00e0 \u1edf m\u1ed9t g\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00e1c, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u00fd do \u1ea5y, bao l\u00e2u hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a trao \u0111\u1ed5i qua l\u1ea1i, chia s\u1ebd, g\u00f3p chung l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/p>\n V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, khi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hay l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c xa v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n V\u00ed d\u1ee5 : Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea5t N\u01b0\u1edbc Vi\u1ec7t Nam l\u00e0 g\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch quan? N\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 hai ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn hay l\u00e0 \u1edf v\u00e0o hai th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, ho\u1eb7c l\u1edbp tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau, s\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai lo\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n khai tr\u1eeb v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i th\u1ea3i l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n Sau c\u00f9ng, ch\u00fang ta d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ba c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf hay l\u00e0 xu th\u1ebf c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu, c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong m\u1ecdi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, nh\u01b0 : t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t h\u00f3a, g\u1ea1n l\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 quan h\u00f3a :<\/p>\n – T\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t h\u00f3a c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb hai ho\u1eb7c ba nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt l\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn c\u00f3 t\u00ednh qui lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb1ng : Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n – G\u1ea1n l\u1ecdc l\u00e0 xu th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb v\u00e0 k\u1ebft \u00e1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n – Ch\u1ee7 quan ho\u00e1 l\u00e0 xu th\u1ebf g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p ho\u1eb7c \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a do t\u00f4i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, cho n\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t th\u00eam v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p.<\/p>\n Khi \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1ebfn ba c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 t\u00e1c phong trao \u0111\u1ed5i h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp hai th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, nh\u1eb1m th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111ang c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n – Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 L\u1eaeNG NGHE ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng bao nhi\u00eau c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby, do ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o n\u00ean, khi ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o v\u00e0 k\u1ebft \u00e1n k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. T\u1ed5 ti\u00ean v\u00e0 cha \u00f4ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u00ab h\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1nh l\u01b0\u1ee1i b\u1ea3y l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i \u00bb, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u00ab h\u00e3y th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u00bb, kh\u00f4ng m\u00ea mu\u1ed9i, tr\u1ea7m m\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, khi \u0111i, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111i. Khi n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i\u2026<\/p>\n – Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 L\u1eafng Nghe v\u00e0 T\u00f4n Tr\u1ecdng k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, t\u1ea1o m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u1ea3o, nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap h\u1ecd di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, do ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd ghi nh\u1eadn. Khi ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u00ab tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00bb.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n 1.2- Sau khi ghi nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1edbi n\u0103m gi\u00e1c quan, ch\u00fang ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng T\u01af DUY, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh L\u1ed0I NH\u00ccN c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn, t\u00f9y theo c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, c\u00f2n mang nh\u1eefng t\u00ean g\u1ecdi kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 : \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay l\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 quan.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eb1m ph\u00e1t huy v\u00e0 thao t\u00e1c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0 duy m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u01b0 t\u1eeb \u0111i l\u00ean t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc, theo n\u0103m c\u1ea5p thang suy lu\u1eadn sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n – C\u1ea5p th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u00e2u l\u01b0\u1ee3m, kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m ch\u00fang c\u00e1c d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch quan c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Trong c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t hai \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n v\u1ee5 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau :<\/p>\n – M\u1ed9t b\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00e1c phong hay l\u00e0 H\u00c0NH VI c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, khi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ai, ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eadc nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 gi\u00fap cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t huy kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ? \u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t theo nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c : c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai, c\u00e1i g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i g\u00ec sau, c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p\u2026<\/p>\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t : trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay l\u00e0 t\u00e1c phong c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ed2NG H\u00d3A v\u1edbi ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n s\u1eafc l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Cho n\u00ean, tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i t\u1edbi c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 duy, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng v\u1edbi s\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p \u00ab T\u00d4I \u00bb, ch\u00fang ta kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 x\u00e1c t\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, cho ph\u00e9p h\u1ecd di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ebb em, \u0111ang \u1edf v\u00e0o l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i \u00ab h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00bb.<\/p>\n Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, khi \u00ab n\u00f3i THAY n\u00f3i TH\u1ebe \u00bb, hay l\u00e0 \u00ab c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1eeb tr\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ngo\u00e0i \u00bb cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i, ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, hay l\u00e0 x\u00f3i m\u00f2n l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n 1.3- T\u01b0 duy, nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i t\u1edbi, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n v\u1ee5 s\u00e1ng soi v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta, trong m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. X\u00daC \u0110\u1ed8NG, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, nh\u1eb1m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n m\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00e0 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u00fd do \u0111\u00f3, khi c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang ta vui s\u01b0\u1edbng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, lo bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng c\u00f2i b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta \u00ab h\u00e3y di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3, chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u00bb. Khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf t\u01b0 duy, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng th\u00e1c l\u0169 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 b\u1edd \u0111\u00ea v\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u0103ng ho\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi m\u00f9a m\u00e0ng trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng hai b\u00ean.<\/p>\n Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed7i x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c sinh ho\u1ea1t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 duy b\u1ecb t\u00ea li\u1ec7t, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u1ed9t hay nhi\u1ec1u nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u1ea5y. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y, x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh B\u1ea0O \u0110\u1ed8NG trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi. \u1ede cu\u1ed1i ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tho\u00e1i h\u00f3a, x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1eadn th\u00f9 v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn tranh. V\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn th\u00e2n th\u00e0nh mu\u00f4ng th\u00fa \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau, trong m\u1ecdi quan h\u1ec7 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac qua l\u1ea1i hai chi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n Trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i chia s\u1ebb n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ba x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n – Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 T\u1ee8C GI\u1eacN. X\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n v\u1ee5 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng : \u00ab T\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ea7n T\u1ef0 DO v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n kh\u1eb3ng quy\u1ebft quy\u1ec1n KH\u00c1C BI\u1ec6T, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang chung s\u1ed1ng hai b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u00bb.<\/p>\n – S\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng BU\u1ed2N PHI\u1ec0N l\u00e0 : \u00ab T\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o l\u1eadp nh\u1eefng QUAN H\u1ec6 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u00e0 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111ang bao quanh t\u00f4i \u00bb.<\/p>\n – Th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 LO S\u1ee2. X\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y \u0111ang d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 cho ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng : \u00abT\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed AN TO\u00c0N. Xin \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 ai \u0111e d\u1ecda, t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o v\u00e0 k\u1ebft \u00e1n t\u00f4i\u00bb.<\/p>\n Khi c\u1ea3 ba nhu c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n, ai ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n thi th\u1ed1 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1i \u0111a v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u1ea3o, tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u0103ng say v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng m\u1ecdi c\u01a1 may, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta, v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 nh\u1edd ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n 1.4- Sinh ho\u1ea1t cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, tr\u00ean ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, l\u00e0 k\u1ebft d\u1ec7t nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed2NG C\u1ea2M v\u00e0 \u0110\u1ed2NG H\u00c0NH, v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n Theo l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Stephen R. COVEY, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 \u00ab Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u1eafng-T\u00f4i Th\u1eafng-Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng Th\u1eafng \u00bb.<\/p>\n – Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebb h\u01a1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua.<\/p>\n – Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 t\u1ea5n phong l\u00e0 h\u1ea1ng \u00ab si\u00eau nh\u00e2n \u00bb, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3i ng\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u00ab c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u00bb, \u00ab \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt \u00bb, \u00ab b\u1ec7 g\u00e1c ch\u00e2n \u00bb, hay l\u00e0 \u00ab m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f3 s\u1ea3n \u00bb.<\/p>\n Trong hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh tho\u00e1i h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, quan h\u1ec7 XIN CHO \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb tho\u00e1i h\u00f3a, \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c v\u00e0 \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n – Xin c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 qu\u1ecb l\u1ee5y, s\u1ee5p l\u1ea1y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng quan to\u00e0n quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c d\u00e2n.<\/p>\n – Cho c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ban ph\u00e1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf gi\u1ecdt, t\u1eeb tr\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ngo\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00f9y nghi v\u00e0 t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, quan h\u1ec7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong \u0111\u1ecba h\u1ea1t T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn, bao g\u1ed3m b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n : XIN v\u00e0 CHO, NH\u1eacN v\u00e0 T\u1eea CH\u1ed0I.<\/p>\n H\u1eb3n th\u1ef1c, ch\u00ednh l\u00fac t\u00f4i cho, t\u00f4i \u0111ang nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i bao nhi\u00eau h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n Khi xin ai m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, t\u00f4i \u0111ang nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Cho n\u00ean, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u01b0\u1edbp gi\u1eadt, \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u1ea5u tranh, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u00f9m beo mu\u00f4ng s\u00f3i.<\/p>\n C\u0169ng trong tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 l\u0103ng k\u00ednh \u1ea5y, khi ai xin t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u1ed9t trong hai con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng : M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 cho m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m v\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n. Hai l\u00e0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u00ab kh\u00f4ng \u00bb, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u00e3 nh\u1eb7n v\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n Xin nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u00e0i n\u1ec9, \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ph\u1ea3i cho.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 khi cho trong tinh th\u1ea7n \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf tr\u00ean, ban ph\u00e1t xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec d\u01b0 th\u1eeba, v\u00f4 \u00edch, v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n Trong c\u00e1ch cho nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u01b0u mang m\u1ed9t h\u1eadu \u00fd l\u00e0 \u00ab th\u1ea3 t\u00e9p c\u00e2u t\u00f4m \u00bb. H\u1eb3n th\u1ef1c, khi cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, t\u00f4i CHO ch\u00ednh CON NG\u01af\u1edcI c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i CHO c\u1ea3 M\u1ed8T T\u1ea4M L\u00d2NG l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec bao nhi\u00eau l\u00fd do v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, trong m\u1ecdi quan h\u1ec7 bao g\u1ed3m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, t\u00ecnh anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i\u2026t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng s\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p \u00ab NG\u00d4I TH\u1ee8 NH\u1ea4T, T\u00d4I \u00bb, \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u1ea3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4i th\u1ee9 hai, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i thay, n\u00f3i th\u1ebf cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, theo ki\u1ec3u \u00ab c\u1ea3 v\u00fa l\u1ea5p mi\u1ec7ng em \u00bb, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1eeb ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng qui lu\u1eadt, v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb C\u1ea6N, PH\u1ea2I, N\u00caN \u2026<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n 2.- Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4<\/p>\n Xuy\u00ean qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1eeb s\u00f3t m\u1ed9t ai, \u0111\u1ec1u \u00ab b\u1eaft c\u00e1 hai tay \u00bb, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi hai ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u00dd TH\u1ee8C v\u00e0 V\u00d4 TH\u1ee8C.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, khi l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn hay l\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch phi\u1ebfn di\u1ec7n, c\u1ee5c b\u1ed9, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m.<\/p>\n Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0y, trong m\u1ed7i quan h\u1ec7 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00e0 trao \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu th\u1ebf x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, k\u1ebft \u00e1n v\u00e0 t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng r\u1eadp khu\u00f4n l\u00e0m theo ch\u00fang ta, trong c\u00e1c l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c sinh ho\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 : ghi nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y l\u1ed1i nh\u00ecn, di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi d\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf,<\/p>\n – \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 v\u1eeba l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, \u00ab Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n ai c\u1ea3. M\u00e0 n\u1ebfu Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7y v\u1eabn \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u00ecnh Th\u1ea7y, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng \u0111\u00e3 sai Th\u1ea7y \u00bb (Ga 8, 15-16).<\/p>\n N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, trong m\u1ed7i L\u1eddi Ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i, trong m\u1ed7i S\u1ee9 M\u1ec7nh Ng\u00e0i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u1eafng nghe Th\u00e1nh \u00dd c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Tin M\u1eebng m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i gieo v\u00e3i kh\u1eafp mu\u00f4n n\u01a1i, tr\u00ean m\u1ed7i ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i qua, l\u00e0 L\u00f2ng Th\u01b0\u01a1ng Y\u00eau v\u00e0 Tha Th\u1ee9 v\u00f4 b\u1ebfn b\u1edd c\u1ee7a Cha Ng\u00e0i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n lo s\u1ee3, bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n, \u00ab \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u00e1u to\u00e1t ra kh\u1eafp th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u00bb, t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n Ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn \u00ab tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u00e0 th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n \u00bb Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n Sau khi l\u1eafng nghe b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 L\u00f2ng Th\u1ee9 Tha, Th\u00e1nh Ph\u00ear\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi Ng\u00e0i : \u00ab Th\u01b0a Th\u1ea7y, con ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee9 tha \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n ? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3y l\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ? \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u00e1p : Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3y l\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3y m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea3y \u00bb (Mt 18, 21-22).<\/p>\n C\u0169ng v\u1eady, tr\u00ean Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1eaft th\u1edf, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Ng\u00f4i Cha : \u00ab L\u1ea1y Cha, xin tha cho h\u1ecd, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0m \u00bb (Lc 23, 34).<\/p>\n Khi s\u1ed1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Tin v\u00e0o \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng l\u00e0 :<\/p>\n – Mang t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i ? ***<\/p>\n Nh\u1eb1m k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn, t\u00f4i xin s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ea5y c\u00e2u th\u01a1 sau \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 t\u00f3m g\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Tin c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0o \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 :<\/p>\n Con l\u00e0 H\u1ea1t N\u01b0\u1edbc hay \u0110\u1ea1i D\u01b0\u01a1ng? Con l\u00e0 B\u00f9n \u0110\u1ea5t hay Th\u1ea7n Ti\u00ean? Tr\u1ea7m m\u00ecnh d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn V\u00f4 Minh, Con l\u00e0 ai? H\u1ea1t B\u1ee5i gi\u1eefa \u0110\u1ea5t Tr\u1eddi V\u0169 Tr\u1ee5, Con ra \u0111i, m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, (Tr\u00edch t\u1eeb t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m “L\u1eafng nghe Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n” – T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Gs. (Lm.) Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n Th\u00e0nh)<\/em><\/p>\n Ngu\u1ed3n: chungnhanduckito.net<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Khi s\u1ed1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Tin v\u00e0o \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng l\u00e0 :- Mang t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i ?- \u0110i l\u1ea1i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i ?- Nh\u00ecn nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn ?- N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ?- Suy t\u01b0 nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 suy t\u01b0 ?- Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp quan h\u1ec7, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ?- Th\u1ee9 tha v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9 tha v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m\u2026H\u1eb3n th\u1ef1c, bao l\u00e2u ch\u01b0a s\u1ed1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Tin nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u00ab Thanh la ph\u00e8ng ph\u00e8ng, ch\u0169m ch\u1ecde xoang xo\u1ea3ng \u00bb (1Cr 13, 1). <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2595,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[81,80],"series":[],"class_list":["post-5840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cau-chuyen-hang-tuan","tag-gs-nguyen-van-thanh","tag-lang-nghe-chua-thanh-than"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5840","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5840"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5840\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2595"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5840"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=5840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\n– C\u1ea5p th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t hay nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft, nh\u1eb1m kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hay l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.
\n– C\u1ea5p th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i, hay l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed1i h\u1eadu. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 \u01b0u ti\u00ean s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t – hay l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t – trong bao nhi\u00eau d\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.
\n– C\u1ea5p th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed1i h\u1eadu th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c hay l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y.
\n– C\u1ea5p th\u1ee9 n\u0103m l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 kh\u1ea3 quan v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf n\u00e0o ? Hay l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u, nh\u1edd v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o ? D\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u00eam, b\u1edbt hay l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, trong bao nhi\u00eau d\u1ef1 \u00e1n s\u1eafp t\u1edbi ?<\/p>\n
\n– B\u00ean kia l\u00e0 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n B\u1ea2N S\u1eaeC hay l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u00e0n t\u00f9y t\u00f9ng d\u00e0i th\u00f2ng l\u00f2ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o, lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb, ch\u1eedi b\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng…<\/p>\n
\n– Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa,
\n– Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a Ng\u00f4i Cha. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n Y\u00eau Th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 Tha Th\u1ee9, soi s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn m\u1ecdi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i n\u1ebbo v\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.
\n– Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i, ban cho Ng\u00e0i m\u1ecdi N\u0103ng L\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 lo s\u1ee3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng c\u1ef1c h\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u1edd Ng\u00e0i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00fac t\u1eaft th\u1edf tr\u00ean Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1.
\n– Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eb3ng quy\u1ebft :<\/p>\n
\n– \u0110i l\u1ea1i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i ?
\n– Nh\u00ecn nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn ?
\n– N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ?
\n– Suy t\u01b0 nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 suy t\u01b0 ?
\n– Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp quan h\u1ec7, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ?
\n– Th\u1ee9 tha v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9 tha v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m\u2026
\nH\u1eb3n th\u1ef1c, bao l\u00e2u ch\u01b0a s\u1ed1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Tin nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u00ab Thanh la ph\u00e8ng ph\u00e8ng, ch\u0169m ch\u1ecde xoang xo\u1ea3ng \u00bb (1Cr 13, 1). Ch\u00ednh Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e1m kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ee9c Tin c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh : \u00ab T\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00f4i \u00bb (Gl 2, 20).<\/p>\n
\nC\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0m M\u1ed9t, T\u00ecnh Th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1ed1i li\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
\nCh\u00ednh con ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean hay tr\u1ea7m m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\nV\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean th\u1eafp s\u00e1ng TH\u1ea6N LINH cho \u0110\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
\nNh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eddi con g\u00e2y \u0111\u1ed9ng chuy\u1ec3n h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0n tinh t\u00fa.<\/p>\n
\nCon mang v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u00e0 vi\u00ean m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n