{"id":5777,"date":"2018-11-04T12:54:32","date_gmt":"2018-11-04T05:54:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=5777"},"modified":"2019-03-30T13:08:17","modified_gmt":"2019-03-30T06:08:17","slug":"tu-do-o-xu-nguoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/tu-do-o-xu-nguoi\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ef1 do \u1edf x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>C<\/span>u\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi nh\u1eadp c\u01b0 t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea5t M\u1ef9 qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Khi ch\u01b0a qua M\u1ef9 th\u00ec n\u00f4n n\u00f3ng ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t \u201ct\u1ef1 do\u201d nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi th\u1ea5u ch\u1ea1m c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y th\u1eadt qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eaft. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u0103n ho\u00e1 l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn.<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00e2n l\u00fd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n

Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u1ecb N\u0103m v\u00e0 hai con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh qua M\u1ef9 v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u00e1u sum v\u1ea7y, t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho hai ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i, 16 v\u00e0 18, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai cho ch\u00e1u. Sau khi \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e2n bay, th\u1eddi gian m\u1eebng m\u1eebng, t\u1ee7i t\u1ee7i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n c\u0169ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a x\u1ee9 \u201ct\u1ef1 do\u201d n\u00e0y. \u0110\u0103ng k\u00fd vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc, t\u00ecm tr\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u2026 Th\u1ea5m tho\u00e1t th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i nhanh, c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u d\u1ea7n quen v\u1edbi l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 tr\u1ec3, \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda ph\u00f2ng, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, text, facebook li\u00ean t\u1ee5c\u2026\u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngao ng\u00e1n th\u1edf d\u00e0i. Mong \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh xum v\u1ea7y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng sum v\u1ea7y theo ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi; ho\u00e1 ra, t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nghe m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa!<\/p>\n

Than ng\u1ea7m b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e9n, l\u1eeda b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nhum ch\u1ec9 ch\u1edd c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng vui ra m\u1eb7t khi th\u1ea5y chi\u1ebfc Mercedes d\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ed5ng nh\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n; m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 b\u01b0\u1edbc xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 m\u1edf c\u1eeda cho ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang nh\u00ecn nhau, h\u00f4n (\u00f4m nh\u1eb9) nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i v\u00e0 chia tay.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn ch\u00e1u gi\u1eadn gi\u1eef, b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i la l\u1edbn, \u201cCon g\u00e1i m\u1edbi qua \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ea5y b\u1eefa m\u00e0 b\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7t th\u1eb1ng n\u00e0y th\u1eb1ng kh\u00e1c; tao c\u1ea5m m\u00e0y. M\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng lo c\u00e1i th\u00e2n c\u00f9a m\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 hai ch\u00e1u, \u201cM\u00e0y coi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta k\u00eca; ch\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc th\u00e0nh t\u00e0i. C\u00f2n con m\u00e0y, h\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1n, \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u00e2y thua k\u00e9m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng lo h\u1ecdc, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u1ea1i th\u00eam \u0111\u00e0ng \u0111\u00fam \u0103n ch\u01a1i\u2026 Tao n\u00f3i h\u1ebft n\u1ed7i r\u1ed3i. Ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 tao, tao kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u1ee5i m\u00e0y l\u00e0m \u00f4 u\u1ebf d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd; tao kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u00ea c\u01b0\u1eddi.\u201d<\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, m\u1ee5c S\u1ed1ng Sao Cho \u0110\u1eb9p chia s\u1ebb ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch xem c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00f3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng quan trong h\u01a1n, qua b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng nhau xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh cho nhau \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng xa qu\u00ea h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi bao h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi t\u1ecb n\u1ea1n t\u1ea1i Hoa-K\u1ef3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o ch\u01b0a th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i t\u1ea1i v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 do th\u00ec b\u1ecb ch\u1ebft do c\u1eb1n c\u1ed7i, thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1 do nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 th\u00ec c\u0169ng b\u1ecb ch\u1ebft v\u00ec qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i qu\u00e1 nhanh ch\u00f3ng, trong khi tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7u gi\u1eefa th\u1ec3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n, m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh an, lo l\u1eafng di\u1ec5n ra ngay trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0 nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi; c\u00f2n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n, s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho nhu c\u1ea7u tinh th\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh mong \u0111\u1ee3i. N\u00ean theo l\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi co r\u00fat l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb cha \u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con ch\u00e1u. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 xung kh\u1eafc b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho con ch\u00e1u n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng gian, th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 v\u0103n ho\u00e1. Ch\u00e2n l\u00fd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u00e1u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n d\u1ea1y l\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb? L\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con ch\u00e1u m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n, \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf?<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0a b\u1ea1n, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean gi\u00fap ta \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do. Bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng b\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e1u, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng b\u00e0 d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cc\u1ea5m\u201d c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng? \u00d4ng b\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u1ec1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, s\u1ef1 h\u1ee5t h\u1ea9ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m khi xa qu\u00ea c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u? Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u201ch\u00f9\u201d \u0111u\u1ed5i ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng che ch\u1edf? S\u1ee3 ch\u00e1u b\u1ecb h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng v\u00ec l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng hay l\u00e0 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u0129 di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? Khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u201cs\u0129 di\u1ec7n\u201d l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 do trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 lo cho ch\u00e1u ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do s\u0129 di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ta m\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ee3p t\u00ecnh h\u1ee3p l\u00fd qua \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i c\u1edfi m\u1edf, l\u1eafng nghe, v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng may gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, xin m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i trong s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, chia s\u1ebb ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con ch\u00e1u m\u00ecnh. Ai ai c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng qua l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00e2n l\u00fd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5778,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[65],"series":[],"class_list":["post-5777","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-song-sao-cho-dep","tag-tu-do"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5777","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5777\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5777"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=5777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}