{"id":4531,"date":"2018-10-06T16:14:30","date_gmt":"2018-10-06T09:14:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=4531"},"modified":"2019-03-30T12:47:45","modified_gmt":"2019-03-30T05:47:45","slug":"tu-do-christopher-reeve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/tu-do-christopher-reeve\/","title":{"rendered":"Christopher Reeve"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>C<\/span>hristopher Reeve (1952 \u2013 2004) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean ki\u00eam \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh n\u1ed7i ti\u1ebfng t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 phim Si\u00eau Nh\u00e2n (Superman) \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00ean tu\u1ed5i anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m m\u1ebfn. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y l\u1ec5 T\u01b0\u1edfng Ni\u1ec7m n\u0103m 1995, Christopher b\u1ecb ng\u00e3 ng\u1ef1a; h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u1ed5 anh b\u1ecb g\u00e3y v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 th\u1edf. M\u1ed9t Si\u00eau Nh\u00e2n gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ph\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ecb b\u1ea1i li\u1ec7t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong cu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 truy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a anh, anh \u0111\u00e3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a b\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh qua d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a anh: \u201cT\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh h\u00f9ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ecd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng gian kh\u1ed5 th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.\u201d[1]<\/p>\n

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Thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u2018t\u1ea1i sao\u2019 ta n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u2018l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.\u2019<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Christopher Reeve, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang ta hay ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao.\u201d T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0y? T\u1ea1i sao con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u2026 C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, h\u1ebft c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea5u h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d kh\u00e1c. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ta t\u00ecm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 khoa h\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ta gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d th\u00ec c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ebf t\u1eafc t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho n\u00f3. C\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d th\u00ec c\u00e0ng nh\u00ecn m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m. C\u00e0ng l\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m th\u00ec c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d ta n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cl\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d<\/p>\n

Viktor Frank, m\u1ed9t t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Qu\u1ed1c X\u00e3 \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb: \u201cKhi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t\u2026 th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do \u2013 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129.\u201d[<\/a>2] Ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ed l\u00fd v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a Viktor Frank!<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ai t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t kh\u1ecfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ngay trong c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ea1i sao,\u201d ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi \u201cl\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y? M\u1ed9t t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 loay hoay h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i b\u1ecb b\u1eaft, t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3,\u2026?\u201d th\u00ec c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb b\u1ebf t\u1eafc trong nh\u00e0 t\u00f9. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e2y s\u1edbm h\u01a1n, kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh, b\u00ecnh an ngay trong ph\u00f2ng giam n\u00e0y.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb qu\u1ea9n tr\u00ed v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n trong nh\u00e0 t\u00f9. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u201cl\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d \u2013 L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Khi b\u1ecb c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf b\u1ea1c t\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d m\u00e0 n\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00f4i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d Khi b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p, khi b\u1ecb ch\u00ea c\u01b0\u1eddi, khi b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 \u201cl\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.\u201d Khi b\u1ecb v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i l\u1ed7i t\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, \u00fd ni\u1ec7m \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d s\u1ebd d\u1eabn ta v\u00e0o ng\u00f5 c\u1ee5t ch\u00ednh ta kh\u00f4ng l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u00fd ni\u1ec7m, \u201cv\u1edbi th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i v\u1eabn ph\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 anh em t\u00f4i\u201d s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ecfi ng\u1ee5c t\u00f9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0a b\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Christopher Reeve, ai trong ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i? N\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 loay hoay t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua bi\u1ebft bao c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb9p trong \u0111\u1eddi. Khi b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, m\u1ea5t \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 \u2013 thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ea1i sao?\u201d ta n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u201cl\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d<\/p>\n

Br. Huynhqu\u1ea3ng<\/span><\/p>\n

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[1] Alex Pattakos. Prisoners of Our Thoughts: Viktor Frankl\u2019s Principles for Discovering Meaning in Life and Work<\/i> (Kindle Locations 535-538). Kindle Edition.<\/p>\n

[2] Alex Pattakos, (506-506).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Khi b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, m\u1ea5t \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 \u2013 thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d ta n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u201cl\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5773,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[65],"series":[],"class_list":["post-4531","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-song-sao-cho-dep","tag-tu-do"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4531","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4531"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4531\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4531"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=4531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}