{"id":3925,"date":"2018-06-23T17:47:02","date_gmt":"2018-06-23T10:47:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=3925"},"modified":"2019-03-22T11:04:41","modified_gmt":"2019-03-22T04:04:41","slug":"cay-phien-muon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/cay-phien-muon\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2y phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n"},"content":{"rendered":"<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-3925-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/brhuynhquang.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/6-Track-06.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/brhuynhquang.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/6-Track-06.mp3\">http:\/\/brhuynhquang.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/6-Track-06.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p><strong>M<\/strong>\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i l\u00e0ng nh\u1ecf t\u1ea1i Ba Lan c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ec3 tr\u1ecdng; d\u00e2n l\u00e0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u00f4ng. H\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y \u00f4ng l\u00e3o nghe r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n trong t\u1eebng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng, \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng khi \u0111\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd mang qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m. \u201cT\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i h\u01a1n t\u00f4i? T\u1ea1i sao ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00eam nh\u1eadu nh\u1eb9t? T\u1ea1i sao v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch \u0111i mua s\u1eafm c\u00f2n v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y th\u00ec l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111ang lo cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh? T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i mang c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh nan y n\u00e0y c\u00f2n \u00f4ng h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng b\u00ea tha m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i t\u1ec9nh b\u01a1 ph\u00e2y ph\u00e2y? D\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai tr\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh an nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng kia?\u201d \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 m\u00e0 d\u00e2n l\u00e0ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1edd \u00f4ng l\u00e3o gi\u00fap t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p class=\"first-child \"><span class=\"cap\" title=\"S\">S<\/span>au m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, \u00f4ng l\u00e3o n\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 sau. \u00d4ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y h\u1ed9i. Trong ng\u00e0y \u1ea5y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i bao v\u1edbi t\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi ngo\u00e0i bao. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n trong l\u00e0ng h\u00e3y mang n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1eb7t\u201d ch\u00fang trong c\u00e1i bao \u1ea5y v\u00e0 treo ch\u00fang l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y c\u00f3 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cc\u00e2y phi\u1ec1n phu\u1ed3n\u201d \u1edf gi\u1eefa l\u00e0ng n\u01a1i s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra l\u1ec5 h\u1ed9i. Sau khi ch\u1edd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi treo \u201cbao phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean c\u00e2y, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ecdn bao c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 mang n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm trao \u0111\u1ed5i \u201cbao phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n\u201d r\u1ea5t s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i, v\u00ec ai ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf \u0111i bao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00ecm bao \u201cnh\u1eb9\u201d h\u01a1n, \u201cd\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu\u201d h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Sau m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, ai c\u0169ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t bao m\u00e0 theo h\u1ecd l\u00e0 v\u1ee9a \u00fd nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u01b0ng khi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0, nh\u1eefng \u201cbao phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n\u201d m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u00f4m l\u1ea5y t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec bao nhi\u00eau so v\u1edbi \u201cbao phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1ea3o ai, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n l\u00e0ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ai ai c\u0169ng mang n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n, kh\u00f4ng ai n\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai nh\u1eb9 h\u01a1n. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00e1c hay ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9a s\u1ebb th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u00fac h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, bi\u1ebft y\u00eau nhau h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.[1]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean minh h\u1ecda cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, hay t\u00ecm ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5, phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n trong \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. Theo \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3n kh\u1ed5: \u201cSinh kh\u1ed5, h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t kh\u1ed5, ch\u1ebft kh\u1ed5, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n c\u0169ng kh\u1ed5.\u201d[2] Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ed \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n trong ki\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 con r\u1eafn r\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3, th\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c v\u1edbi tr\u00f2 r\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u1eaft n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3 t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi ta.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m si\u00eau ph\u00e0m, th\u00e1nh Gioan Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u00ean nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111en t\u1ed1i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean r\u1ea5t t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft: \u201cH\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t thay v\u00ec s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tho\u00e1i m\u00e1i;\u2026 h\u00e3y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng mang l\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i, an \u1ee7i\u2026\u201d[3] Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u khi ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3&nbsp; \u0111i qua v\u1edbi bao kinh nghi\u1ec7m x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e1u. Ch\u00ednh trong kinh nghi\u1ec7m x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e1u v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u00f4m ch\u1ea7m l\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 mu\u1ed9n phi\u1ec1n, h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn lao m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u00e1nh Gioan Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0: \u201c\u00d4i \u0111\u00eam t\u1ed1i ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o v\u00e0 d\u1ecbu \u00eam.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>H\u00f4m nay m\u1ee5c <em>S\u1ed1ng Sao Cho \u0110\u1eb9p<\/em> m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u201cbao phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n do ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh g\u00e2y ra, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 phi\u1ec7n mu\u1ed9n xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m chu\u1ea9n hay m\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecdng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb con tim c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay ch\u01b0a s\u1edf h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi s\u1ef1 phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 do m\u00ecnh mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, cung c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. Ta v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec3m chu\u1ea9n cho \u0111\u1eddi ta; ta mong mu\u1ed1n ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd (v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3). Bao l\u00e2u ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd th\u00ec ta c\u00f2n phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n \u0111au kh\u1ed5. C\u00e0ng phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n h\u01a1n khi ta c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a ta v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2m ra n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng, b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c, v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Th\u1eadt ra ta \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ea5y c\u0169ng tr\u0103n tr\u1edf v\u00e0 phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd m\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y&nbsp; th\u00f4i. Hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 ta c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i trong ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u01b0a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: Gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat n\u00e0y, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o nh\u1ea5t cho ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta, cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta. Ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm hay so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ai kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 ta ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u01b0\u01a1n n\u1edf m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong><em>Br. Huynhqu\u1ea3ng <\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<hr size=\"1\">\n<p>[1] L\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch t\u1eeb<em> Soul, <\/em>ed. Elisa Davy Pearmain, (Oregon: Resource Publications, 1998), 71<\/p>\n<p>[2] Ayya Khema, <em>Being Nobody, Going Nowhere<\/em> (Boston: Wisdom Publication: 1987),144.<\/p>\n<p>[3] T\u1eeb <a href=\"http:\/\/www.carmelitanacollection.com\/johncross.php\">http:\/\/www.carmelitanacollection.com\/johncross.php<\/a> (accessed July 21, 2010).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u01b0a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: Gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat n\u00e0y, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o nh\u1ea5t cho ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta, cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1953,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[69],"series":[],"class_list":["post-3925","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-song-sao-cho-dep","tag-song-hien-tai"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3925","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3925"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3925\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3925"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3925"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3925"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=3925"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}