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<\/a>\u1ea2nh c\u1ee7a V\u0169 \u0110\u00ecnh Huy\u1ebfn, Lm (CMC)<\/em>
T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i ng\u00e0y mai
T\u00ecnh y\u00eau chi\u1ebfu \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi
T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01a1n c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i
V\u00e0 con tim \u0111\u00e3 vui tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i\u2026
(Tr\u00edch nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Huy)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
L\u1ea1 l\u1eafm. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng danh l\u1ee3i th\u00ec c\u0169ng y chang v\u1edbi c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng t\u00ecnh \u00e1i:<\/p>\n
C\u00e1i v\u00f2ng t\u00ecnh \u00e1i cong cong
\nK\u1ebb h\u00f2ng ra kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
L\u00fac n\u00e0y h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ecb b\u00f3p m\u00e9o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea9y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o c\u01a1n h\u1ecfa m\u00f9, t\u1ea1o ra bi\u1ebft bao c\u1ea3nh h\u1ecfa ng\u1ee5c c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1ec5 b\u1ed9 “kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c nghi\u1ebfn r\u0103ng, gi\u00f2i b\u1ecd r\u00fac r\u1ec9a v\u00e0 l\u1eeda kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1eaft” ngay \u1edf tr\u1ea7n gian n\u00e0y trong kh\u00f4ng \u00edt gia \u0111\u00ecnh! C\u0169ng b\u1edfi \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ed5 v\u00f5 cho th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh \u00e1i ch\u1ed9p gi\u1eadt, hay t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, cho th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 th\u00f4i th\u00fac t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111ang vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea7m \u1ea5m, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00e1i b\u1ecf nhau \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t t\u00ean l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng s\u1edf. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1edbi l\u1edbn ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp h\u1ecdc xong, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 “n\u1eeda ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eeda ng\u1ee3m n\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1eddi \u01b0\u01a1i” c\u00f2 b\u01a1 th\u1ea5t th\u1ec3u, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda g\u00ec h\u1ebft. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 n\u00f3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf b\u00f9a y\u00eau r\u1ed3i!<\/p>\n
M\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i b\u00f9a y\u00eau th\u1eadt. V\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebft ra l\u00e0m m\u00ea m\u1ea9n tim gan khi b\u00e9n m\u00f9i t\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfm v\u00e0o r\u1ed3i th\u00ec c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb b\u00f9a m\u00ea v\u1eady. H\u1ed9i Th\u0103ng Ti\u1ebfn Khoa H\u1ecdc M\u1ef9 (American Association for the Advancement of Science) trong m\u1ed9t ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh \u1edf Seattle v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1997 \u0111\u00e3 cho bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng “ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng” (fall in love, infatuation) hay “tr\u00fang b\u00f9a y\u00eau” n\u00e0y :<\/p>\n
Trai g\u00e1i b\u00e9n nhau c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u1eeda b\u00e9n r\u01a1m v\u1eady. C\u01a1n ch\u00e1y b\u00f9ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Khi b\u1ecb ti\u1ebfng s\u00e9t t\u00ecnh \u00e1i \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u00fang tim th\u00ec b\u00e0n tay r\u1ecbn m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i, m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ecf b\u1eebng l\u00ean, h\u01a1i th\u1edf g\u1ea5p g\u00e1p d\u1ed3n d\u1eadp… v\u00e0 l\u1eeda b\u1ed1c. Khi b\u1ecb “ng\u00e3 v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh” th\u00ec t\u1eeb \u00f3c ti\u1ebft ra ch\u1ea5t endorphin nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t thu\u1ed1c phi\u1ec7n x\u00ec ke. Kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t k\u1ef9 th\u00ec bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t: adrenalin, dopamine, norepinephrine, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 phenylethylamine (PEA). Anthony Wash b\u1ea3o “t\u00ecnh \u00e1i” l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng c\u00f2i d\u1ed9i l\u00ean t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 m\u00e1y PEA. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y, theo Helen Fisher trong cu\u1ed1n “Gi\u1ea3i Ph\u1eabu T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau,” l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t k\u00edch th\u00edch \u00f3c l\u00e0m \u0111\u00ea m\u00ea th\u00edch th\u00fa nh\u01b0 thu\u1ed1c phi\u1ec7n, l\u00e0m cho l\u00ean h\u1ee9ng (get high), c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3m \u0111au, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft s\u1ee3. Ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng ch\u1ea5t trong s\u00f4-c\u00f4-la. V\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 m\u00f9a Valentine ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u00e1n s\u00f4-c\u00f4-la h\u00ecnh tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u1eafp c\u00e1c ch\u1ee3. Tha h\u1ed3 m\u00e0 ng\u1ecdt. Tha h\u1ed3 m\u00e0 m\u00ea.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t m\u00ecnh ch\u1ea3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft chi ti\u1ebft c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t m\u00ea tr\u00ean, c\u1ee9 theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ea5y: l\u1eeda g\u1ea7n r\u01a1m l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng b\u00e9n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e8n xanh \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ecf k\u1ef7 c\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u m\u00e0 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o “kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch an to\u00e0n khi l\u00e1i xe,” b\u00ecnh x\u1ecbt t\u1eaft l\u1eeda ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n. Ch\u1ee9 c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eeba c\u00e1i b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y th\u00ec th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5. Khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, l\u1eeda \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e9n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn tim r\u1ed3i, th\u00ec s\u1edf ch\u1eefa l\u1eeda c\u0169ng ch\u1ecbu b\u00f3 tay th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m xa h\u01a1n n\u1eefa: l\u1ea5y ch\u1ea5t hormone l\u00e0 oxytocin ch\u00edch v\u00e0o hai con chu\u1ed9t, th\u00ec \u0111ang d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng b\u1ed7ng ch\u00fang v\u1ed3 v\u1eadp qu\u1ea5n qu\u00edt l\u1ea5y nhau. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu l\u1ea5y ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i r\u1ed3i th\u00ec hai con chu\u1ed9t l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 c\u0169.<\/p>\n
V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 \u1edf ch\u1ed7: \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u00fang t\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t m\u00ea ti\u1ebft ra khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb tr\u00fang t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103m r\u01b0\u1ee1i \u0111\u1ebfn hai n\u0103m m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, sau \u0111\u00f3 khi g\u1ea7n nhau th\u00ec ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y nh\u1ea1t phai d\u1ea7n \u0111i, tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i cho hai “\u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1” c\u00e1i d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng “m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y!”<\/p>\n
T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU, T\u00ccNH \u00c1I HAY T\u00ccNH D\u1ee4C?<\/b><\/p>\n
\u1ede Vi\u1ec7t Nam phong tr\u00e0o \u0110o\u1ea1n Tuy\u1ec7t h\u1ed3i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea3 ph\u00e1 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169 c\u00f3 n\u1ec1 c\u00f3 n\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 “theo m\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n theo m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat do d\u1ef1!” Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 theo c\u00e1i m\u1eabu t\u1ef1 do luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i c\u1ee7a T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. \u0110ang khi nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0 Robert Johnson trong ph\u1ea7n nh\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec1 cu\u1ed1n “Ch\u00fang Ta” (We), l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh: V\u0103n h\u00f3a T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7n nay qu\u00e1 c\u1ed5 v\u00f5 th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh l\u1eeda b\u1ecfng; \u1edf \u00c1 \u0111\u00f4ng, th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng: gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u00eam \u1ea5m v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng chung th\u1ee7y. V\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1edbi h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh hai b\u00ean xem x\u00e9t c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng. C\u00f2n th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh \u00e1i th\u1ea3 d\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00f3a v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1 cao ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed1c l\u1eeda (infatuation), ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00e1y nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd M. Scott Peck trong cu\u1ed1n Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng \u00cdt Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110i (The Road Less Traveled), “best-seller” trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n cho \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, trong \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng “B\u00e9n L\u1eeda”.\u00a0 \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 truy\u1ec7n tr\u00fang t\u00ecnh (fall in love), th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 truy\u1ec7n nh\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh (fall out of love). Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00fang t\u00ecnh b\u00e9n l\u1eeda th\u00ec c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00fang gi\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, v\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ch\u00ea \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o c\u1ea3n n\u1ed5i: d\u1eabu tr\u0103m ch\u1ed7 l\u1ec7ch c\u0169ng k\u00ea cho b\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t t\u00fap l\u1ec1u tranh hai tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0ng; m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi b\u00e0n v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi can ng\u0103n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 \u00edch. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00fang t\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau: kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft! V\u1eady m\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n th\u00ec l\u1ea1i ch\u00f3ng t\u00e0n. Th\u00ea th\u1ea3m l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf\u00a0 t\u00ecnh \u00e1i ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang l\u00e0 sai tr\u1ec7ch. C\u0169ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh lung lay t\u1eadn g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa khi xu\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e0n, duy\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 phai, v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t “b\u00f9a y\u00eau” \u0111\u00e3 lo\u00e3ng d\u1ea7n ra v\u1edbi th\u00e1ng n\u0103m.<\/p>\n
TIN VUI TH\u1ec2 HI\u1ec6N VALENTINE<\/b><\/p>\n
Ng\u00e0y Valentine c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00edch r\u1ea5t xa x\u01b0a, t\u1eeb th\u1eddi v\u0103n minh \u0111\u1ebf qu\u1ed1c Roma. H\u1eb1ng n\u0103m d\u00e2n ch\u00fang m\u1eebng l\u1ec5 th\u1ea7n Faunus l\u00e0 th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00f9a m\u00e0ng ph\u00ec nhi\u00eau v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 15 th\u00e1ng 2. T\u1ed1i h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u1ee9c ng\u00e0y 14 th\u00e1ng 2, trai g\u00e1i t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp r\u00fat th\u0103m c\u1ea7u may ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. R\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb h\u1ed3i n\u00e0o, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y Valentine. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “th\u00e1nh” Valentine, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u trong s\u1ed5 s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00f4ng th\u00e1nh n\u00e0y. Truy\u1ec1n thuy\u1ebft n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 th\u1ee9 ba, th\u1eddi ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf Claudius II, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 con trai trong \u0111\u1ebf qu\u1ed1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i xung v\u00e0o l\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1eadn. Nh\u01b0ng trai g\u00e1i y\u00eau nhau m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i xa c\u00e1ch th\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u1ed9i l\u1eafm. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c t\u00ean l\u00e0 Valentine \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00ecnh b\u00ed m\u1eadt l\u00e0m ph\u00e9p c\u01b0\u1edbi cho h\u1ecd, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p hi\u1ec3m nguy. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ecb ph\u00e1t gi\u00e1c, linh m\u1ee5c Valentine b\u1ecb b\u1eaft v\u00e0 b\u1ecb x\u1eed t\u1eed v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 14 th\u00e1ng 2 n\u0103m 269.<\/p>\n
C\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u00fang t\u1edbi c\u1ee1 n\u00e0o th\u00ec ch\u1ea3 ai bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111ich th\u1ef1c, di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a: Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ed m\u1ea1ng m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/em>. V\u00e0 M\u1eb9 T\u00ear\u00easa v\u1edbi d\u00f2ng B\u00e1c \u00c1i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng kh\u1ed5 b\u00ean Calcutta: Y\u00eau l\u00e0 cho \u0111i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au<\/em> (Love means giving until it hurts).<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i n\u00e0y c\u00e1i kia, nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i th\u01a1 b\u00e0i nh\u1ea1c th\u01b0\u1eddng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, m\u1ecdi hy sinh, cho nhau v\u00e0 v\u00ec nhau: khi th\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac gian nan, khi b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y: nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 sung s\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eddi l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac gian kh\u1ed5 c\u00f3 nhau, ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n c\u00f9ng c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 nhau, nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ng\u1ecdt b\u00f9i \u01b0\u1edbp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3m t\u00ecnh n\u1ed3ng. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111i bon chen t\u00ecm gi\u1ea7u t\u00ecm h\u1ed3 h\u1edfi… th\u00ec l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m cho xa c\u00e1ch, d\u1ec5 sinh t\u1eadt. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 Tin Vui n\u00e0y xem ra r\u1ea5t m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n “Ph\u00fac cho anh em l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3, v\u00ec n\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a anh em. Ph\u00fac cho anh em l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3i, v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa s\u1ebd cho anh em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c no l\u00f2ng. Ph\u00fac cho anh em l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3c, v\u00ec anh em s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui c\u01b0\u1eddi. Ph\u00fac cho anh em khi v\u00ec\u00a0 Con Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta o\u00e1n gh\u00e9t, khai tr\u1eeb, s\u1ec9 v\u1ea3 v\u00e0 b\u1ecb x\u00f3a t\u00ean nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 x\u1ea5u xa. Ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3, anh em h\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa, v\u00ec n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng d\u00e0nh cho anh em \u1edf tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi th\u1eadt l\u1edbn lao.<\/em>” (Lc 6,20:23)<\/p>\n PH\u00daT T\u1ecaNH T\u00c2M<\/b><\/p>\n V\u00e2ng, Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng \u00cdt Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110i l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt. V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y m\u1edbi l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1edf hoa h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. V\u00ec Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u00f5:<\/p>\n “H\u1ea1t l\u00faa n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu th\u1ed1i m\u1ee5c, s\u1ebd v\u1eabn tr\u01a1 tr\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/em>“. (Ga 12,24). “Ai c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh th\u00ec s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t, ai vui ch\u1ebft \u0111i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y<\/em>” (Ga 12,25).<\/p>\n H\u00f2a theo b\u00e0i h\u00e1t The Rose c\u1ee7a Amanda McBroom, con \u0111ang th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t c\u00e2y. Con b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 hy sinh \u0111ang h\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5 v\u00f9i gi\u1eadp con cho th\u1ed1i m\u1ee5c \u0111i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Trong vi\u1ec5n ki\u1ebfn, m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111ang m\u00faa nh\u1ea3y trong n\u1eafng m\u1edbi l\u00ean:<\/p>\n N\u1ee4 H\u1ed2NG<\/b> 1. T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3, cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat nh\u01b0 s\u00f4ng s\u00e2u, x\u00f4 d\u1eadp, s\u1eady lau s\u1ee9c y\u1ebfu. T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f4n nao c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i c\u1ed3n c\u00e0o, nh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1edbn \u0111au v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng 2. M\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n y\u1ebfu, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m tung m\u1edf ra, n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn, ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa. N\u00e0y h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn xem: Ai o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch l\u00fac b\u1ecb \u0111o\u1ea1t, nay \u0111\u00e2u bi\u1ebft, s\u01b0\u1edbng vui ban t\u1eb7ng! 3. M\u00e0n \u0111\u00eam r\u1ee7 xu\u1ed1ng, sao qu\u00e1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eadt d\u00e0i, ch\u00ecm trong t\u0103m t\u1ed1i. N\u00e0y con h\u00e3y nh\u1edb: Gi\u00f3 r\u00e9t bu\u1ed1t t\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u1ee5i c\u00e0nh, tuy\u1ebft l\u1edbp l\u1edbp, l\u1ea5p ch\u00f4n mu\u00f4n v\u1eadt. Lm. D\u0169ng L\u1ea1c Tr\u1ea7n Cao T\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i n\u00e0y c\u00e1i kia, nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i th\u01a1 b\u00e0i nh\u1ea1c th\u01b0\u1eddng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, m\u1ecdi hy sinh, cho nhau v\u00e0 v\u00ec nhau<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2994,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[53],"series":[],"class_list":["post-2995","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cau-chuyen-hang-tuan","tag-cau-chuyen-hang-tuan"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2995","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2995"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2995\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2995"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2995"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2995"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=2995"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\n(l\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a LM V\u0169 H\u00e2n v\u00e0 LM Tr\u1ea7n Cao T\u01b0\u1eddng).<\/p>\n
\nT\u00ecnh Y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3, s\u1eafc b\u00e9n nh\u01b0 m\u0169i dao, \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0o, r\u1ea1ch tim n\u1ee9t m\u00e1u.<\/p>\n
\nT\u00ecnh Y\u00eau M\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft, s\u1ebd th\u1eafm nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3a hoa, nh\u01b0ng con l\u00e0, h\u1ea1t c\u00e2y ch\u1ecbu m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n
\nCh\u00ecm trong m\u1ed9ng m\u01a1, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m m\u1edf m\u1eaft tr\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd, c\u01a1 may \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
\nM\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n y\u1ebfu, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m vui ch\u1ebft \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n
\nT\u00ecnh Y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3, ai v\u00ed nh\u01b0\u00a0 m\u01b0a r\u01a1i, cho ai may \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, hay ai l\u1ea5n h\u1ea5ng.<\/p>\n
\nM\u1ea7m c\u00e2y n\u1eb1m thi\u1ebfp d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng khi Xu\u00e2n v\u1ec1, tr\u1ed5 sinh N\u1ee4 H\u1ed2NG.<\/p>\n