{"id":2492,"date":"2017-11-25T07:45:47","date_gmt":"2017-11-25T00:45:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=2492"},"modified":"2019-03-22T11:40:36","modified_gmt":"2019-03-22T04:40:36","slug":"nhin-rong-luong-trong-tha-thu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/nhin-rong-luong-trong-tha-thu\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u00ecn r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong tha th\u1ee9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"first-child \"><span class=\"cap\" title=\"K\">K<\/span>\u00ednh th\u01b0a qu\u00ed th\u00ednh gi\u1ea3, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ee7 quan khi x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ee5c&nbsp;<em>S\u1ed1ng Sao Cho \u0110\u1eb9p<\/em>&nbsp;h\u00f4m nay ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1: H\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn bao dung h\u01a1n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 tha th\u1ee9 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d4ng Steve Covey l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng,&nbsp;<em>B\u1ea3y Th\u00f3i Quen c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u00e0nh \u0110\u1ea1t,<\/em>&nbsp;\u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho nh\u1eefng ai khi nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o gi\u00fap h\u1ecd c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n h\u01a1n trong c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn bao dung v\u00e0 s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Trong m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn t\u00e0u \u0111i\u1ec7n ng\u1ea7m t\u1ea1i New York v\u00e0o s\u00e1ng Ch\u1ee7 Nh\u1eadt, \u00f4ng Steve c\u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh kh\u00e1ch \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong toa t\u00e0u v\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u1ea3m h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed y\u00ean t\u1ec9nh. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1m d\u1eebng, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean v\u00e0o ngh\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i ch\u1ea1y lui ch\u1ea1y t\u1edbi v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng trong toa t\u00e0u. \u00d4ng Steve c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y \u1ed3n \u00e0o tr\u00ean toa t\u00e0u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y m\u1ed7i l\u00fac m\u1ed7i g\u00e2y \u1ed3n \u00e0o v\u00e0 x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n h\u01a1n trong toa t\u00e0u. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, \u00f4ng Steve c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ra m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh kh\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i, \u00f4ng Steve \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ebf ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1eeba m\u1edbi l\u00ean t\u00e0u v\u00e0 n\u00f3i. \u201cTh\u01b0a \u00f4ng, con c\u00e1i \u00f4ng l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o ch\u00fang ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean v\u00e0o ngh\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u00ecn \u00f4ng Steve v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201c\u00d4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eeba t\u1eeb b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u00ec m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u1eeba m\u1ea5t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd. Ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd; v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con t\u00f4i c\u0169ng v\u1eady.\u201d[William J. Bausch,&nbsp;<em>A World of Stories&nbsp;<\/em>(Blackrock: The Columba Press, 1998), 214]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/stick-family-1449578741cAV-e1511570630309.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2493\" src=\"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/stick-family-1449578741cAV-e1511570630309.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"211\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Qu\u00ed v\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng Steve t\u00ea t\u00e1i v\u00e0 l\u1eb7ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00d4ng Steve \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed5i \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1eeba m\u1ea5t v\u1ee3, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba m\u1ea5t m\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng Steve \u0111\u1ebfn ngay sau \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 bao tr\u00f9m trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng Steve v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 toa t\u00e0u.<\/p>\n<p>Kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng Steve Covey c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt. Ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u201cch\u1ee5p m\u0169\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 k\u1ebft \u00e1n h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng theo l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng xem ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh; m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh; m\u1ed9t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 g\u00e2y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i cho m\u00ecnh\u2026 Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh, h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng mang trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u1ea7m k\u00edn, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, hay m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nan gi\u1ea3i m\u00e0 h\u1ecd m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i th\u00ec sao? Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eeba b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, v\u1eeba b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i; hay c\u00f3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1eeba g\u1eb7p tai n\u1ea1n th\u00ec sao? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y l\u1ed7i cho ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c v\u1eeba gi\u00e1ng xu\u1ed1ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd th\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd th\u1eed suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a? C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 theo b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1eed nh\u00ecn xa h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang \u1ea9n s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 \u1ea5y ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tha th\u1ee9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng theo th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang ta \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u nghe th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u1ea3, m\u1ea5t m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eb1ng sau v\u00e0 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n<p>Trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn xa h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn bao dung v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o \u1ea5y, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn l\u1edbn lao trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong n\u0103m n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><em>Br. Huynhqu\u1ea3ng<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 theo b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1eed nh\u00ecn xa h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang \u1ea9n s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 \u1ea5y ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2493,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[71],"series":[],"class_list":["post-2492","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-song-sao-cho-dep","tag-tha-thu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2492","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2492"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2492\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2493"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2492"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2492"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2492"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=2492"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}