M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch:<\/b><\/p>\n
Gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd y\u00eau nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t Giao \u01b0\u1edbc nghi\u00eam t\u00fac.<\/p>\n
C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa:<\/b><\/p>\n
L\u1eddi d\u1eabn:<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Trong C\u1ef1u \u01b0\u1edbc Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 k\u00fd k\u1ebft m\u1ed9t Giao \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi d\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t H\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 Giao \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00ednh Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb trong th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb l\u1edbn l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 anh ch\u1ecb \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 d\u1ea1n d\u0129 n\u00f3i l\u00ean l\u1eddi \u201c\u01b0ng thu\u1eadn\u201d k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 c\u1eed h\u00e0nh h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i qua h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1ef1c thi Giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed.
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\nL\u1eddi Ch\u00faa: tr\u00edch trong s\u00e1ch <\/i><\/b>ti\u00ean tri H\u00f4s\u00ea<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa ph\u00e1n:<\/p>\n
\u201cN\u00e0y Ta s\u1ebd quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 n\u00f3, \u0111\u01b0a n\u00f3 v\u00e0o sa m\u1ea1c, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng n\u00f3 th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 bu\u1ed5i thanh xu\u00e2n, nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y n\u00f3 \u0111i l\u00ean t\u1eeb Ai C\u1eadp.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 s\u1ea5m ng\u00f4n c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa \u2013 ng\u01b0\u01a1i s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi Ta: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i\u201d, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi \u201c\u00d4ng ch\u1ee7 \u01a1i\u201d n\u1eefa. Ta s\u1ebd l\u1eadp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, Ta s\u1ebd l\u1eadp h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u01a1i trong c\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, trong \u00e2n t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00f3t th\u01b0\u01a1ng; Ta s\u1ebd l\u1eadp h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u01a1i trong t\u00edn th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u01a1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa. V\u00e0o ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3, Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i, \u2013 s\u1ea5m ng\u00f4n c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa \u2013 Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i tr\u1eddi, v\u00e0 tr\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea5t\u201d (Hs 2,16.17b-18.21-23).<\/p>\n
L\u1eddi nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n:<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
\u201cXin \u0111\u1eb7t em nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc \u1ea5n tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i tim anh, nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc \u1ea5n tr\u00ean c\u00e1nh tay anh.
\nPh\u1ea3i, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 t\u1eed th\u1ea7n, c\u01a1n \u0111am m\u00ea d\u1eef d\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 \u00e2m ph\u1ee7.
\nL\u1eeda t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda b\u1eebng ch\u00e1y, m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda th\u1ea7n thi\u00eang!\u201d (Dc 8,6).<\/p>\n
Linh m\u1ee5c:<\/i><\/p>\n
L\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa, ch\u00fang con c\u1ea3m t\u1ea1 Ch\u00faa, v\u00ec v\u1edbi quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng v\u00f4 song Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef theo h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0i, v\u00e0 trao ban h\u1ecd cho nhau nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 hai m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng ph\u00e2n ly \u0111i\u1ec1u Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p n\u00ean m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng. Xin cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con c\u00e1i n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa bi\u1ebft kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch trung t\u00edn k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. Amen.<\/p>\n
C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi gi\u00fap suy t\u01b0:<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2013 T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n?<\/p>\n
\u2013 Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi nhau qua k\u00fd k\u1ebft m\u1ed9t kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
\u2013 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan g\u00ec trong ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a k\u1ebft h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a anh\/ch\u1ecb?<\/p>\n
Suy t\u01b0:<\/b><\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho nhau<\/i><\/p>\n
Khi n\u00f3i \u201cch\u00fang ta y\u00eau nhau\u201d l\u00e0 ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ef1 y\u00eau m\u00ecnh hay y\u00eau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ta th\u1ecfa l\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 y\u00eau m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ta v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ed7, cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ct\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn\u201d cho nhau, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh: tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1eefu (kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c); \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng (m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u00e3i m\u00e3i); phong nhi\u00eau (m\u1edf ra v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi sinh s\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n).<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 c\u1ea7u<\/i><\/p>\n
T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch th\u1ee9 y\u1ebfu. S\u1ef1 v\u00f4 c\u1ea7u thu\u1ed9c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n n\u1eefa. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2u s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng kh\u00f4ng mong \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau hi\u1ec3n l\u1ed9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai l\u00e0 nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, \u00edch l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3! \u0110\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u00edch k\u1ef7, ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn tha nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trao hi\u1ebfn cho m\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi tha nh\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n
\u201cTrong T\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n Ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/i>, \u0110\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Phanxic\u00f4 d\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 suy t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o B\u00e0i ca \u0110\u1ee9c \u00c1i (1Cr 13). Theo \u0111\u00f3, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 vun \u0111\u1eafp t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn<\/i>, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd l\u00e0;<\/p>\n
t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5<\/i>, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m t\u00ednh hay l\u1eddi n\u00f3i nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ghen t\u1ecb<\/i>, nh\u01b0ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng khoe khoang t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5<\/i>, kh\u00f4ng coi m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng<\/i>, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee9ng c\u1ecfi;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i<\/i>, cho \u0111i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh to\u00e1n;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau tha th\u1ee9<\/i>, bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 soi m\u00f3i;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau vui v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng vui v\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau dung th\u1ee9<\/i>, gi\u1eef g\u00ecn mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i, tr\u00e1nh x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/i> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/i> n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau hy v\u1ecdng<\/i> t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/i> v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eb3ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t cong;
\nt\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d (H\u0110GMVN, Th\u01b0 g\u1eedi c\u00e1c Gia \u0111\u00ecnh C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o, 8).
\nM\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng<\/i><\/p>\n
Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 cho th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn h\u01a1n k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ebfn m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh v\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu: \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, ta qu\u00e1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129, nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen, c\u1ea3m quan, s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u2026 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o cho t\u1edbi khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3 hai bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u1ebft \u0111i cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng \u201cch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng\u201d n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta, b\u1edfi l\u1ebd ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 cho tha nh\u00e2n trong ta! H\u1eb3n l\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb hay nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam phong ph\u00fa. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u1ea5y r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i n\u01a1i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n hay \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c phong ph\u00fa th\u00eam, th\u00ec khi \u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u00edch l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n cho c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn. Ch\u1ebft \u0111i cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi v\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a quan tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cbi\u1ebft nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 e s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb tha nh\u00e2n l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
T\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/i><\/p>\n
\u201cTrinh khi\u1ebft v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, l\u00e0 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d (Amoris Laetitia<\/i> 161).<\/p>\n
C\u1ed9i r\u1ec5 v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n n\u1eb1m \u1edf n\u01a1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho nhau v\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u1ea7u, cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng. K\u1ebft h\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc qua b\u1eadc th\u1ec1m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng theo hai c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 b\u1eadc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u1ea3 hai b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi: con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \u201ctheo h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d. C\u1ea3 hai ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00e0y (nh\u1eefng \u01a1n ban kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac cho nhau) h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i duy nh\u1ea5t, v\u1eeba phong nhi\u00eau v\u1eeba mang \u01a1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9, c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh. L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi D\u00e2n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Theo ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f3, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 trinh khi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch nhau.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t. Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u1ea5y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u00f4ng khai b\u1edfi v\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 hai gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1edfi b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan, t\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi, v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 do, h\u1ecd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi nhau trong kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n: m\u1ed9t kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc bao h\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb d\u00e0i l\u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01a1 s\u1edf tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cquan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u201d, m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea5n s\u00e2u v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1i lui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n!<\/p>\n
H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 l\u00e0 giao \u01b0\u1edbc<\/i><\/p>\n
Gi\u00e1o lu\u1eadt m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cgiao k\u00e8o\u201d (hay \u201ch\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng\u201d) n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201ckh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc\u201d h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i. C\u00e1ch n\u00f3i n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan ni\u1ec7m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u201ch\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng\u201d v\u1ed1n n\u1eb7ng t\u00ednh lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p h\u00e0nh ch\u00e1nh, v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 theo ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Giao \u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eefa Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 d\u00e2n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u0103n t\u00ednh \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o trong \u201cto\u00e0n th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t\u201d h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 x\u00e1c. \u1ede c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00ednh Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 ghi kh\u1eafc v\u00e0o con tim m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng. Kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n sao v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o Giao \u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ea7n linh: n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, khi \u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nhau c\u00e1c quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng thi\u1ec7n \u00edch kinh t\u1ebf, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trao \u0111\u1ed5i nhau c\u00e1c \u201cquy\u1ec1n tr\u00ean th\u00e2n x\u00e1c\u201d n\u1eefa; nh\u01b0ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nhau \u201cquy\u1ec1n\u201d tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i v\u1ecb, t\u1ee9c tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, l\u1eabn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1eefu<\/i> (m\u1ed9t<\/i> nam m\u1ed9t<\/i> n\u1eef), b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly v\u00e0 m\u1edf ra v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng phong nhi\u00eau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1eefu v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee5 t\u1ea1o gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi trao hi\u1ebfn to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch vi\u00ean m\u00e3n ch\u00ednh khi m\u1edf ra t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea c\u00f3 t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly<\/i>v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft hi\u1ebfn\u00a0trao ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea ph\u1ea3i m\u1edf ra v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng phong nhi\u00eau<\/i> v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng b\u1edfi gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh (l\u00e0 nam hay l\u00e0 n\u1eef) v\u00e0 b\u1edfi sinh d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 qua m\u1ed9t g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t<\/i><\/p>\n
L\u1eddi tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 \u201c\u01b0ng thu\u1eadn\u201d k\u1ebft h\u00f4n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eedi trao cho nhau trong c\u1eed h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n (hay hi\u1ec7n th\u1ec3 h\u00f3a) t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea. \u01af\u1edbc nguy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t d\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eefa, th\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng ng\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i: \u201cs\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe\u201d, s\u1ef1 \u201cth\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ee5t gi\u1ea3m. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu th\u00ea tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, hay nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m chan ch\u1ee9a\u2026, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang, m\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cung \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u1ef1 do kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a c\u00f2n v\u00ec l\u00fd do c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean h\u1ec7, m\u00e0 n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft v\u1edbi thi\u1ec7n \u00edch c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec n\u00f3 g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, mu\u1ed1n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3 suy y\u1ebfu hay xem ra nh\u01b0 ch\u1ebft \u0111i.<\/p>\n
T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9<\/i><\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00fd m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Nh\u01b0ng trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ch\u1ef1c s\u1eb5n c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e9p k\u00edn m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ta c\u0169ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n: n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1ecfa m\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n so \u0111o tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh, d\u1ef1a theo m\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u201cK\u1ebft h\u00f4n trong Ch\u00faa\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n tha th\u1ee9. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00e3i m\u00e3i\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa tha th\u1ee9, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh h\u00f3a c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n b\u1edfi \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng b\u1edfi c\u00f4ng tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111i b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ta nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7\u201d (Amoris Laetitia<\/i> 108).<\/p>\n
Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn theo nh\u00f3m:<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2013 Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi nghe tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3?<\/p>\n
\u2013 Anh ch\u1ecb ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh cho nhau, v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho nhau?<\/p>\n
\u2013 \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u s\u1ed1ng k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1ng chung ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf?<\/p>\n
\u2013 C\u00e1c quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, d\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1eeba n\u00f3i, c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n
\u2013 Theo anh ch\u1ecb nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n duy nh\u1ea5t, trung t\u00edn, b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly v\u00e0 m\u1edf ra v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng phong nhi\u00eau?<\/p>\n
V\u0103n ph\u00f2ng H\u0110GMVN<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch: Gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd y\u00eau nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t Giao \u01b0\u1edbc nghi\u00eam t\u00fac.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1042,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-1189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-doi-song-gia-dinh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1189\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1042"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1189"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=1189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}