{"id":1136,"date":"2016-12-23T18:40:14","date_gmt":"2016-12-23T11:40:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/?p=1136"},"modified":"2016-12-23T18:47:15","modified_gmt":"2016-12-23T11:47:15","slug":"gap-go-i-chung-ta-yeu-nhau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gdvsdt.com\/blog\/gap-go-i-chung-ta-yeu-nhau\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 I: CH\u00daNG TA Y\u00caU NHAU"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 hai ch\u1eef \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d, nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e1n cho hai ch\u1eef \u0111\u00f3. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c quan ni\u1ec7m th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb T\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3; trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u0111e d\u1ecda b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi; t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng vun tr\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t khi nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m n\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng chung trong \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5p tho\u00e1ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cNi\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a T\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d\u00a0(Amoris Laetitia)\u00a0trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh \u0111ang h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>L\u1eddi d\u1eabn:<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef theo h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng Ng\u00e0i, cho h\u1ecd tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. Ch\u00ednh Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 ban anh ch\u1ecb cho nhau, \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ch\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n: m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eb7ng ph\u1ea9m d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/p>\n<p><em>L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa: tr\u00edch trong s\u00e1ch S\u00e1ng th\u1ebf<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ph\u00e1n: \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5t n\u1eb7n ra m\u1ecdi d\u00e3 th\u00fa, m\u1ecdi chim tr\u1eddi, v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, xem con ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 g\u00ec: h\u1ec5 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ecdi m\u1ed7i sinh v\u1eadt l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u00ec t\u00ean n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 th\u1ebf. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho m\u1ecdi s\u00fac v\u1eadt, m\u1ecdi chim tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi d\u00e3 th\u00fa, nh\u01b0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng. \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa cho m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 m\u00ea \u1eadp xu\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfp \u0111i. R\u1ed3i Ch\u00faa r\u00fat m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra, v\u00e0 l\u1eafp th\u1ecbt th\u1ebf v\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn \u0111\u00e3 r\u00fat t\u1eeb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra, l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i: \u201cPhen n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 x\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi x\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i, th\u1ecbt b\u1edfi th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i! N\u00e0ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00fat t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ra\u201d. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00eca cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea7n tru\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nhau. (St\u00a02,18-25).<\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u1eddi nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n:<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>Ch\u00fac t\u1ee5ng Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa c\u1ea3 tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t,<\/div>\n<div>V\u00ec Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 ban cho ch\u00fang con s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 cho ch\u00fang con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p nhau.<\/div>\n<p>Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 su\u1ed1i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ea3y n\u1edf gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang con v\u00e0 giao ph\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho ch\u00fang con:<\/p>\n<p>Xin h\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, th\u1eadt h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ea5n ki\u00eau c\u0103ng v\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7, nh\u01b0ng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm thi\u1ec7n \u00edch cho tha nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<p>Xin cho ch\u00fang con bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m tinh tuy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 trong s\u00e1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh trao hi\u1ebfn cho nhau, h\u1ea7u gia t\u0103ng hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u00fang con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Ch\u00faa v\u00f4 bi\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi gi\u00fap suy t\u01b0:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Ng\u00e0y nay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau?<br \/>\n\u2013 T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb?<br \/>\n\u2013 Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o \u0111e d\u1ecda t\u00ecnh y\u00eau?<\/p>\n<p><em>Suy t\u01b0:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u1ec1 ch\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u00e2n s\u1ef1 n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. N\u00f3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o cao qu\u00fd nh\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u nh\u1ea5t\u2026 M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, \u0111ang khi th\u1ef1c ra h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u theo nh\u1eefng ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau duy nh\u1ea5t: c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n t\u00e2m giao, t\u00ecnh li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1ed1n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t s\u00e2u xa v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4 g\u00e1i hay ch\u00e0ng trai m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ban \u0111\u1ea7u khi m\u1edbi n\u1ea3y sinh, nh\u01b0 bao \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1edbi kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u, bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1i vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn nhau trong l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ea3y n\u1edf nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ea7u trong con tim c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng v\u00e0 n\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00e1i t\u00ecnh duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng san s\u1ebb v\u00e0, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 v\u00ec ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i ta thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n. M\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y, ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ng\u1ed9, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. Ta hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, v\u00e0 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u1ea1nh ng\u1ed9 n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. V\u0103n h\u00f3a ng\u00e0y nay, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ed1ng hai th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c: m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1ec1 cao t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u00ec ch\u00ednh t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ban cho n\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u201cc\u00f4ng tr\u1ea1ng\u201d qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, \u0111\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i h\u00f3a t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 dung t\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n<p>Amoris Laetitia: \u201cT\u00ednh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n hay \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef li\u00ean v\u1ecb trong \u0111\u00f3 tha nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghi\u00eam t\u00fac tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, trong ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. [\u2026] Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, \u00e1i t\u00ecnh xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c chuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Trong \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u201c\u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u1ee3p h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u1eb7ng ph\u1ea9m trao hi\u1ebfn\u201d.[1] Trong c\u00e1c b\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, Th\u00e1nh Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng th\u00e2n x\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c d\u1ecb bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng l\u00e0 \u201cngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 phong nhi\u00eau v\u00e0 sinh s\u1ea3n\u201d, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n s\u1edf h\u1eefu \u201ckh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng\u201d.[2] M\u1ed9t khao kh\u00e1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, cho d\u00f9 g\u1eafn v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u01b0u c\u1ea7u l\u1ea1c th\u00fa, \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m th\u00e1n, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c xung n\u0103ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u0103n.\u201d[3]<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1t khao con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a nhau, \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n d\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u1ea3y sinh mu\u1ed1n \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, th\u00f3i \u00edch k\u1ef7 v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n ch\u1ef1c r\u00ecnh ch\u1edd, n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u201cqu\u00ean m\u00ecnh\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau tha nh\u00e2n kia. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c th\u00ec kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t hay gi\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7u \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn trao b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: anh y\u00eau em khi anh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00ec l\u00e0m em h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, khi anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 trao cho em \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a anh, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a em.<\/p>\n<p>Amoris Laetitia: \u201cTrong b\u00e0i ca \u0111\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4, ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u00e9t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c:<\/p>\n<div>\u201c\u0110\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn th\u00ec nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c, hi\u1ec1n h\u1eadu,<\/div>\n<div>Kh\u00f4ng ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u00f4ng v\u00eanh vang, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc,<\/div>\n<div>Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm t\u01b0 l\u1ee3i,<\/div>\n<div>Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i h\u1eadn th\u00f9,<\/div>\n<div>Kh\u00f4ng m\u1eebng khi th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 gian \u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng vui khi th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt.<\/div>\n<div>\u0110\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn tha th\u1ee9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, hy v\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3\u201d<\/div>\n<div><em>(1 Cr\u00a013,4-7)<\/em>\u201d[4].<\/div>\n<p>M\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc sau c\u00f9ng n\u1eefa c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt th\u00ec h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng chung. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ch\u0103m ch\u00fat, \u00e2n c\u1ea7n, ra s\u1ee9c, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n d\u1ea5n m\u00ecnh cho vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1 c\u1ee7a nhau, tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vi\u00ean m\u00e3n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n trong con tim c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef th\u00ec c\u1edfi m\u1edf ra v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ea5ng si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i th\u1ee5 t\u1ea1o th\u00ec h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i kinh nghi\u1ec7m, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1edd Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00ec Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed5i v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim con ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i, ch\u00ednh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cem l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a anh\u201d, hay \u201canh l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a em\u201d, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng cho nhau, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u1ea3 hai thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mang m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng trong m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 v\u00f4 bi\u00ean, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee5 t\u1ea1o n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0110\u1ea5ng V\u00f4 Bi\u00ean \u1ea5y, Ng\u00e0i mu\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ccung c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i\u201d[5] n\u01a1i h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ebfn b\u1edd cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng vi\u00ean m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y \u0111\u1eafp ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y qua ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i, vun tr\u1ed3ng, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, d\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebfn ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc: h\u1ecdc y\u00eau. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu minh h\u1ecda \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t hay trong v\u00ed d\u1ee5 h\u1ea1t l\u00faa ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft \u0111i n\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0m tr\u1ed5 sinh nhi\u1ec1u b\u00f4ng h\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec y\u00eau, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, trong t\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, b\u1ecf c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch, th\u00fa ri\u00eang t\u01b0\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n hay nh\u00ecn xung quanh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng vui s\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng gi\u1edd ph\u00fat th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0n nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00edch. C\u00f3 khi, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ebfm tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hay nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u00e0m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n hay cay \u0111\u1eafng. Ng\u00e0y nay, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u Nh\u00f3m c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00e2n h\u1eefu (c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh) \u0111ang ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, v\u00ec t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n h\u1eefu v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu gi\u00fap nhau v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Amoris Laetitia: \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi: \u201cc\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu h\u00e3y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec7n \u00edch cho ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. [\u2026] \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i nguy\u00ean qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u00ec, trong khi ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn cho nhau, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh t\u1ea5m \u00e1o d\u1ec7t n\u00ean to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh. [\u2026] \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u201ccon \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng khai t\u00e2m\u201d v\u00e0o B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn b\u00ed t\u00edch \u1ea5y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc\u201d[6].<\/p>\n<p>\u201cC\u0169ng n\u00ean t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1eeb xa kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 gi\u00fap cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb phong ph\u00fa. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch n\u1ebfu quy t\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ra nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n chuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb quan t\u00e2m [\u2026]\u201d[7].<\/p>\n<p><strong>Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn theo nh\u00f3m:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi n\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3?<br \/>\n\u2013 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n v\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a?<br \/>\n\u2013 Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau? C\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u01b0u ti\u00ean n\u00e0o cho m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00f3?<br \/>\n\u2013 C\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c? \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf ch\u00ednh theo anh ch\u1ecb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i khi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c trong vi\u1ec5n \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y?<\/p>\n<div>\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013\u2013<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>[1]\u00a0Gioan Phaol\u00f4\u00a0II,\u00a0Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 Th\u00e2n x\u00e1c\u00a0XLVIII, 1, b\u1ea3n d\u1ecbch Vi\u1ec7t ng\u1eef, NXB T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o 2016, 352.<\/div>\n<div>[2]\u00a0Gioan Phaol\u00f4\u00a0II,\u00a0Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc\u00a0\u2026 cit., 125.<\/div>\n<div>[3] \u0110GH\u00a0Phanxic\u00f4, T\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n\u00a0Amoris Laetitia\u00a0(Ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a T\u00ecnh y\u00eau),\u00a0\u00a0151.<\/div>\n<div>[4]\u00a0Amoris Laetitia, cit., 90.<\/div>\n<div>[5]\u00a0B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111ict\u00f4\u00a0XVI, T\u0111.\u00a0Deus caritas est, 11. Cf.\u00a0Phanxic\u00f4,\u00a0Amoris\u00a0\u2026 cit., 70.<\/div>\n<div>[6]\u00a0Amoris Laetitia, cit., 207.<\/div>\n<div>[7]\u00a0Ibid., 208.<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">V\u0103n ph\u00f2ng H\u0110GMVN<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch: Tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 hai ch\u1eef \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d, nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e1n cho hai ch\u1eef \u0111\u00f3. 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